A man was strolling on the beach when he saw a fisherman fishing on the
cliff. He went up and asked the fisherman how was his catch. The fisherman
replied there wasn't many fishes but he was contented and happy with his
catch. The man went on and told the fisherman that he should go out into
the ocean, that way he would get more fishes to sell. If the fisherman was
really good, he could set up a company and buy up trawlers, catch even
more fishes and earn even more money. Having achieved all these, the
fisherman could buy all the things he wanted, that including a beach
resort, do the things he wanted like relaxing down at the beach eg.
fishing recreationally.
The fisherman looked puzzled, "I don't understand this, you are suggesting
that I should go one big loop so as to end up where i am today, happily
fishing on the cliff?"
ABOUT THE STORY...
Almost everyone here is constantly working to achieve happiness. We all
work hard, trying to earn more money. What is the point of all this when
we are not happy? Afterall, we are forcing ourselves to work harder just
to obtain happiness. Are we all trying to be like the man above, going a
full circle to end up being at the same place. Your parents have been
telling you, study hard get a good job, work hard and earn your keep, only
then you would be happy. We have to realise that the key to happiness is
to appreciate yourself and Life. It is not about working yourself to death
and getting no where.
A farmer came into town and asked the owner of a restaurant if he could
use a million frog legs. The restaurant owner was shocked and asked the
man where he could get so many frog legs! The farmer replied, "There is a
pond near my house that is full of frogs-millions of them. They croak all
during the night and are about to drive me crazy!" So the restaurant and
the farmer made an agreement that the farmer would deliver frogs to the
restaurant five hundred at a time for the next several weeks.
The first week, the farmer returned to the restaurant looking rather
sheepish, with two scrawny little frogs. The restaurant owner said,
"Well...where are all frogs?" The farmer said, "I was mistaken. There were
only these two frogs in the pond. But they sure were making a lot of
noise!"
ABOUT THE STORY...
Next time you hear somebody criticizing or making fun of you, remember
it's probably just a couple of noisy frogs. Also remember that problems
always seem bigger in the dark. Have you ever laid in your bed at night
worrying about things which seem almost overwhelming like a million frogs
croaking? Chances are pretty good that when the morning comes, and you
take a closer look, you'll wonder what all the fuss was about.
A turtle family went on a picnic. The turtles, being naturally slow about
things, took seven years to prepare for their outings. Finally the turtle
family left home looking for a suitable place. During the second year of
their journey they found it. For about six months they cleaned up the
area, unpacked the picnic basket, and completed the arrangements. Then
they discovered the had forgotten the salt. A picnic without salt would be
a disaster, they all agreed. After a lengthy discussion, the youngest
turtle was chosen to retrieve the salt from home. Although he was the
fastest of the slow moving turtles, the little turtle whined, cried, and
wobbled in his shell. He agreed to go on one condition: that no one would
eat until he returned. The family consented and the little turtle left.
Three years passed and the little turtle had not returned. Five years ...
six years...then in the seventh year of his absence, the oldest turtle
could no longer contain his hunger. He announced that he was going to eat
began to unwrap a sandwich.
At that point the little turtle suddenly popped out from behind a tree
shouting, "SEE I knew you wouldn't wait. Now I am not going to go get the
salt.
ABOUT THE STORY...
Some of us waste our time waiting for people to live up to our
expectations. We are so concerned about what others are doing that we
don't do anything ourselves.
Things We Can Learn From a Dog
When loved ones come, always run to greet them.
Run, romp, and play daily.
Be loyal.
Never pretend to be something you're not.
If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
When someone is having a bad day, be silent,
sit close by and muzzle them gently.
Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
No matter how often you are criticized,
don't buy into the guilt thing and pout.
Run right back and make friends.
The Goose Story
Next fall when you see geese heading south for the winter, flying in "V"
formation, you might be interested to know what science has discovered about
why they fly that way.
It has been learned that as each bird flaps its wings, it creates an uplift
for the bird immediately following. By flying in a "V" formation, the whole
flock adds at least 71% greater flying range than if each bird flew on its
own.
Whenever a goose falls out of formation, it suddenly feels the drag and
resistance of trying to do it alone, and it quickly gets into formation to
take advantage of the lifting power of the bird immediately in front.
When the lead goose gets tired, it rotates back in the wing and another
goose flies point. The geese honk from behind to encourage those up front to
keep up their speed.
Finally, when a goose gets sick or becomes wounded and falls out, two geese
fall out of formation and follow it down to help and protect it. They stay
with the ailing or wounded goose until it is able to fly or until it is
dead. Then they launch out on their own, or with another formation, to catch
up with the group.
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a
bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer
a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails
into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger,
the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it
was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence....
Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his
father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail
for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the
young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.
The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You
have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will
never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like
this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how
many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there."