This logs the fourth year of our relationship.. enjoy!
The truth is.. I've been really busy. James got here on June 14th I believe it was. We got him settled down.. enjoyed time together.. fought more often than not.. and BLAH.. he's gone again! He left just a few days ago. It's Sunday today.. and he left on Thursday. Now I'll take the time to explain a few things. ..
Why he's gone? NO WE DIDN'T BREAK UP! *lol* That's hardly the case here. He got a job up in Michigan.. near Grand Rapids. He put the deposit down just yesterday for the apartment, and is going to be staying back in Ohio for the month he has to wait to move in. In the meantime, I'm sitting back waiting for the time to pass.. another three months, that is. I'm going to wait about 2 months (if I can wait that long) after he has moved in so that he can get settled and know the area a little better so that at least one of us isnt totally lost when I get there!
You might be wondering why I said "fought more often than not".. Well, that's because of a few different reasons:
I dont want to sound like I took this all lightly.. because it really is a big deal. Don't move in together thinking everything is going to be perfect and that you're never going to fight because you've wanted it for so long; it's not practical. Sure, it may happen to some of you out there.. but I think for the majority it's not going to be so perfect forever, ya know? And I'm not trying to get your hopes down.. it is perfect in some ways, but not in others. Go for it, but dont just jump into it!
I meant to say a lot more in this update, but my time is running short. If there's anything you'd like to know.. feel free to email me! . . .The Fourth Year. . .
January 25, 2000. . .(6:00pm)
August 29, 1999. . .(8:29pm)
...And here ends another long break in updates!...
2. After only being with him for a week or so at a time for the past three years, living together for two months straight is a totally different story. (Note: Try to start adjusting to each other's daily habits BEFORE you make the big move! *lol*)
3. The living space that we had was simply inadequate for all the shit we have. Hahha.. Seriously! My basement isn't huge, ya know! We had everything laying around.. and that just made both of us more stressed out.
Well, like the last time I updated.. it's been a helluva long time!!! So many things have happened!
First, I moved to Michigan to be with James in the beginning of November. It was great; I loved being on our own. However, I didn't have a job after three weeks and I was getting really depressed, so I moved back Thanksgiving weekend. Unfortunately, James was visiting his parents when I left (I was sick so I didn't go with him), and my parents came up to visit me and urged me to come back with them. So far, it's working out pretty good this way. I'm saving up to buy a new car (slowly but surely), and James has come to visit me once since I've been back. We spent New Year's together. It was great!!!
As far as my singing goes.. I'm still singing away! I haven't found a band as of yet, but I'm still looking! I will definitely keep you updated on those two things.. if nothing else! Sorry this isnt a long update, and that's it's taken so long, but what can ya do? hehe.. Buhbye!!!
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