I don’t like to use the phrase “good-bye”
With nearly everyone
But it is said much easier
When their journey’s almost done
I’ve learned that you can’t hesitate
Or withhold an “I love you”
The thing I don’t want to admit is
That goes for “good-bye” too
When you know the one you love
Has Christ living in their heart
Peace comes along with each “good-bye”
Because you won’t really be apart
Though letting go will be easier
When it’s time to say good-bye
I won’t mask the sorrow that I feel
You know that I’ll still cry
I know that you won’t miss me
As you’re walking Heaven’s shore
When it’s time for me to join you
You’ll just have closed the door
The years for me may be many
And I’ll miss you every day
But I will keep on serving God
If He wants me to stay
You won’t have time to wonder
What’s taking me so long
For you will still be learning
The words to Heaven’s song
The time is drawing near
When you will leave my side
So every time I see you
I’ll say “I love you” and “Good-bye”
Sometimes we just get so burnt out
Doing what we do
We may not even realize
Just what it’s coming to
When your rope has reached its end
Tie a knot and just hang on
When it feels like you might fall
God will make you strong
His arms are open and waiting
To surround you with His love
Now you can rest and accept
Your hug from God above
Hugs from God are amazing
Mortal words cannot express
The feeling of complete consolation
The assurance that He will bless
Invisible arms around you
Holding you close and tight
Silent whispers promising
That everything will be all right
No matter how challenging
The road that you must trod
Relief will come when you receive
Heavenly hugs from God
Lots of years you’ve been together
Through many ups and down
Sharing everything with her
Every smile and frown
It must be hard to watch her now
Sometimes so weak and frail
But God will always give to you
Grace that will never fail
Grace that will enable you
To accept His perfect plan
Whether that be renewed health
Or a trip to Gloryland
I know it’s hard to tell the Lord
That you are letting go
Of someone that you love so much
But He wants you to know
To know if you are capable
Of trusting in His will
Sometimes the moment we let go
He leaves them with us still
Exercize your faith today
Admit that God knows best
Surrender your will to be His own
Sometimes that’s the only test
The days go by so slowly
Each one feeling like a year
Though surrounded we feel lonely
And each blink holds back a tear
As inevitable as the seasons
But the hour is still concealed
Tempted to ask for a reason
The departure time is not revealed
We know our God controls the reins
And wants our faith to grow
He’ll comfort us through every pain
His peace He will bestow
We’ve given our loved one over to God
And asked for grace to go on
Now the path of waiting we must trod
Until God calls them Home
Waiting is the hardest part
Harder than saying good-bye
The suffering can break a heart
And leave us asking “why”
Why must suffering be prolonged
When there 's nothing more than pain
Can’t God take the life that to Him belongs
So that Heaven can be attained
Tears were shed when the sickness appeared
And we prayed day in and day out
For God’s perfect will to be made clear
We promised to have faith and no doubt
Our faith is taxed when we must wait
But prayer that burden can ease
For this appointment God won’t be late
And we'll be allowed to grieve
I made my trip to Heaven
A couple years ago
Though it hardly seems like minutes
Since I left the earth below
I’ve taken the Glory land tour
Met family I never knew
Laid crowns at Jesus’ feet
Gotten all the answers, too
I welcomed siblings in Christ that day
When the planes & towers fell
Then the war brought many more
Who had served their country well
Now I’m watchin for my Granny
Her time is drawing near
I’m anxious to hug & kiss her
And show her everything here
Her pain will all be ended
Her race will be well-run
Her tears will all be wiped away
Her journey finally done
We’ll walk and talk arm in arm
On the streets of purest gold
Then she will run & jump & shout
As Jesus she finally beholds
I’ve seen many loved ones
Leave this world behind
Some had suffered many years
Some left with no good-bye
Death has never scared me
Christ is the only way
He shed His blood on Calvary
So I would not fear this day
At long last, my turn is here
I’m dancing on Heaven’s shore
Now I’m visiting with Mom & Dad
And hugging Jennifer once more
The wonders of Heaven are many
The glories I can’t explain
My sorrows have all been ended
My body feels no more pain
Cry if you must when you say goodbye
But dry those tears before long
My battle is over, my race has been run
I’m singing the victory song
**Picture of Aunt Mary here**
"Make a joyful noise unto the Lord all ye lands. Serve the Lord with
gladness: come before his presence with singing. Know ye that the Lord
he is God: it is he that hath made us and not we ourselves; we are his
people and the sheep of his pasture. Enter into his gates with
thanksgiving, and into his courts with praise: be thankful unto him, and
bless his name. For the Lord is good; his mercy is everlasting; and his
truth endureth to all generations"
Psalm 100:1-5
"What A Day That will Be"
"Victory in Jesus"
Served the church as Sunday School
teacher, nursery worker, financial
clerk and sang in the choir.
Served at Calvary Christian School
in the needle and thread department
as teacher and at state and regional
competition as a judge.
She was a charter member of
Calvary Baptist church and will
be missed by all that knew her.
Prelude - 1:00 PM | Rebecca Lacy |
Scripture Reading | II Corinthians 5:1-8 |
Prayer | Pastor John Riker |
Congressional Song | "Face to Face" "My Faith Has Found a Resting Place" |
Special Music | Deacon Donnie Eslinger "Touring That City" |
Special Music | Mrs. Stephanie Riker "In the Garden" |
Comments | Grandson, Michael Lacy |
Funeral Message | Pastor, Dr. H. Eugene Riker |
Benediction | Pastor, Dr. H. Eugene Riker |
Recessional |
The program above failed to mention that my Aunt Mary was
"Sister of Martha Shanklin Hofmeister"
I am very thankful that she held that title, otherwise
I wouldn't have had an "Aunt Mary"
This Poem was written by Martha (my mom)
You came into my life |
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Then one day you fell in love |
It hurts so much to see you |
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