Contents
IN APPRECIATION FOR JO ROBINSON
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
INTRODUCTION
PART I: THE UNCONSCIOUS MARRIAGE
1. The Mystery of Attraction
2. Childhood Wounds
3. Your Imago
4. Romantic Love
5. The Power Struggle
PART II: CONSCIOUS MARRIAGE
6. Becoming Conscious
7. Closing Your Exits
8. Creating a Zone of Safety
9. Increasing Your Knowledge of Yourself
and Your Partner
10. Defining Your Curriculum
11. Containing Rage
12. Portrait of Two Marriages
PART III: THE EXERCISES
13. Ten Steps Toward a Conscious Marriage
Exercise 1. Your Relationship Vision
Exercise 2. Childhood Wounds
Exercise 3. Imago Work-up
Exercise 4. Childhood Frustrations
Exercise 5. Partner Profile
Exercise 6. Unfinished Business
Exercise 7. Mirroring
Exercise 8. The No-Exit Decision
Exercise 9. Reromanticizing
Exercise 10. The Surprise List
Exercise 11. The Fun List
Exercise 12. Stretching
Exercise 13. Containzr Transaction
Exercise 14. Container Days
Exercise 15. Self-Integration
Exercise 16. Visualization of Love
SEEKING PROFESSIONAL HELP
NOT'ES
BIBLIOGRAPHY