Getting the Love you Want
A guide for Couples
by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.




Contents
 
 

 IN APPRECIATION FOR JO ROBINSON

 ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

INTRODUCTION

PART I: THE UNCONSCIOUS MARRIAGE

  1. The Mystery of Attraction
  2. Childhood Wounds
  3. Your Imago
  4. Romantic Love
  5. The Power Struggle

PART II: CONSCIOUS  MARRIAGE

 6. Becoming Conscious
 7. Closing Your Exits
 8. Creating a Zone of Safety
 9. Increasing Your Knowledge of Yourself and Your Partner
10. Defining Your Curriculum
11. Containing Rage
12. Portrait of Two Marriages

PART III:  THE EXERCISES

13. Ten Steps Toward a Conscious Marriage
Exercise  1. Your Relationship Vision
Exercise  2. Childhood Wounds
Exercise  3. Imago Work-up
Exercise  4. Childhood Frustrations
Exercise  5. Partner Profile
Exercise  6. Unfinished Business
Exercise  7. Mirroring
Exercise  8. The No-Exit Decision
Exercise  9. Reromanticizing
Exercise 10. The Surprise List
Exercise 11. The Fun List
Exercise 12. Stretching
Exercise 13. Containzr Transaction
Exercise 14. Container Days
Exercise 15. Self-Integration
Exercise 16. Visualization of Love
 

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