after a tremendously busy weekend, predominantly being stuck with
paperwork and clients, I finally find some time to write. The
new clients I have picked up over the past couple of weeks are
testing the limits of my schedule and physical resources. Something
is going to give, and usually this means my health.
Echinacea is my friend.
The weekend was not without its pleasantries, however. Marrin,
visiting home while taking a break from university in the States,
stopped by on two occasions, Friday and Sunday evening. During
the former, she was able to meet Freda, after hearing so much
about her through The Spiritual Journey. I knew they would
hit it off. During the latter, Marrin was able to once again reunite
with Lowlandz; we three shared the hell of the public school system
together for many years. This time, however, she was finally able
to meet Rhiannon, and Lowlandz' two daughters.
Nothing like wee ones to mark the passage of time.
Seeing Marrin, I always find myself stuck in the wax of nostalgia.
"Remember when we did this?", "Remember so-and-so?",
are often used phrases characteristic of my getting together with
Marrin. While the time I endured school is something I seldom
feel compelled to look back on, Marrin is a reminder of the few
things that warrant reminiscing about.
The Goddess is stuck unemployed once again. After working Saturday
and Sunday with the woman inflicted with MS, enduring a horde
of verbal abuse, unsafe working conditions, and tasks that were
not part of the initial working agreement, The Goddess rightfully
decided that the situation was not tenable. Suffering from this
terrible, degenerative disease for nine years now, this woman
refuses to access some of the professional services and equipment
that would afford her a greater quality of life. Instead, she
is in abject denial, is bitter and angry, and is looking for some
innocent employee to dump all of that bile on.
The Goddess is a lot smarter than that. She is well aware that,
at forty, this woman is not apt to change her abusive ways simply
because a relative stranger tries to establish some healthy boundaries
with which to work safely and pleasantly. And as experienced in
life as she is, there are some things she is just no longer willing
to accept. Herself is much better off finding someone who can
appreciate the holistic services that she has to offer, albeit
at a rate far, far less than she is deserving of.
As has become our mantra, something better will come along.
Alyx has made it his personal mission not to see us stuck with
grass more than half an inch high this summer. He announced his
return from his Mecca to the States this afternoon with the revving
of the lawnmower. It is becoming his calling card. Over coffee
and lunch, he told of his adventures south of the border with
spark and enthusiasm. His theme was 7100 kilometers in six
days; sounds like the title of a good book.
He was missed; it was great to see him again.
And I thought Moo was finished Moostruating. As it turns out,
when last I wrote on said topic, her heat was just gearing up
to what has been its climax these last couple of days (excuse
the pun). In my naivety, I figured that Reekie, being neutered,
would be as nonchalant about Moo as he usually is. Well, he is
quite the horn-dog, and I guess that even though some of the equipment
is gone, the instinct to breed is not, particularly in the presence
of a hormone laden Moo. To our ignorant horror, The Goddess and
I have found ourselves trying to separate a stuck Reekie and Moo
on no less than a half dozen occasions since the weekend. Sometimes
cold water works, sometimes it does not. Sometimes they just have
to stand there, ass to ass, the most forlorn expressions on their
mugs, and wait for the tender moment to pass.
It is a foregone conclusion that Moo will not have another chance
to go into heat.