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I am always charming, engaging, entertaining and amusing. Count on me to be the life of the party.
I am so sweet and nice. Can't you tell? I'm always smiling and I'm never in a bad mood.
I am Mr. or Mrs. Right. I always do what I "should" do, and so should you. I think nothing but pure thoughts and I always do the right thing.
I am just a weak and innocent gal and I need a big strong guy like you to take care of me.
I am strong and self-sufficient. I don't need you. I don't need anybody.
I am a big strong tough guy; I ain't afraid of anything.
I am so intelligent. Every word that comes out of my mouth drips with wisdom.
I am such a good person. See how giving and kind I am? I don't have a selfish bone in my body.
Living a false life and hiding behind facades drains our energy and saps our vitality. When your life is driven by what others think, you are no longer in control of your feelings and you are at the mercy of uncontrollable external forces. When you can accept yourself (warts and all) and understand that we are all package deals consisting of both good and bad ingredients, life becomes easier.
Whenever someone's behavior bugs you, it is usually mirroring back to you some aspect of your own personality that you have trouble accepting, parts of ourselves that we try to disown or deny. Understanding this can be a powerful
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