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— St. Paul to Timothy, I, chapter 5, verse 22 —
Man is made of body and soul united to form one human
person and so body and soul must work together in all human actions.
The soul is superior to the body but it can only act by using the body
as its instrument. If, for instance, a man desires to give an alms
to a poor person, the desire is in his mind and will, which are powers
of the soul; but the soul must use the hand, which is part of the body,
to give the alms.
To bring home to ourselves more clearly how necessary
the body is for God's service, we may consider the various actions that
we must perform to worship Him and sanctify our souls. We see at
once what an important part the body plays in them. Even to think
of God we must use our brain. To speak to God in prayer, we must
use our lips and tongue. Our bodies enter into the reception of all
the sacraments. In Baptism, the water is poured on our heads.
In Confirmation, the chrism is applied to our foreheads. In Extreme
Unction, the holy oil is applied to all our members. In Confession,
we must speak our sins. In Matrimony, the bride and bridegroom must
utter the words of consent. At Ordination, the Bishop lays his hands
on the heads of those to be ordained and they touch the sacred vessels
with their hands. Above all, in the sacrament of God's love, the
Eucharist, the body has the supreme honour of receiving Our Lord's Body
and Blood under the appearances of the Consecrated Host.
Not only does the body serve the soul in all these
ways in the task of sanctifying itself but it is also the dwelling place
of the soul thus sanctified and so may truly be called the dwelling place
of God.
Since, therefore, the body plays such a necessary part in all our actions for the service of God, we have the duty to preserve its life and health so that our service may be more perfect. Furthermore, if we have the duty to do this, we have also the right to do it and no-one else can interfere with that right.
Since the human body is so honoured by God, it follows
that we must honour and respect our own bodies and those of others.
The virtue which helps us to do this is called the Virtue of Chastity.
It is also called the Virtue of Holy Purity. Another name for it
is the Angelic Virtue because the Angels, by their very nature, are free
from any temptation against it.
The purpose of the sixth and ninth Commandments is to secure this honour and respect for the human body. The sixth Commandment forbids any impure action whether committed alone (such as masturbation) or with another person as well as all looks and words contrary to the virtue of holy purity.
The sixth Commandment forbids especially adultery which is a serious sin against holy purity committed with another's wife or husband. Married persons have a special obligation to observe holy purity because husband and wife belong to one another in soul and body by the sacred Sacrament of Matrimony.
The primary goal of marriage being the procreation and the education of children, it follows necessarily that "every action which, either in anticipation of the marriage act or in the accomplishment of that act, or, in the development of the natural consequences of that act, proposes, either as an end or as a means to make procreation impossible, is unlawful in itself. In other words, any such contraceptive act is wrong in itself." (Archbishop J. C. McQuaid)
Courtship means direct preparation for matrimony. You date because you want to get married. Of course, you cannot get married to someone you do not know. Therefore, you date to know someone you intend one day to marry.
Needless to say, courtship is dangerous for the soul. "The spirit is willing," said Jesus, "but the flesh is weak. Watch and pray that you enter not into temptation." (St. Matthew, 26, 41.) It is already a mortal sin to expose oneself voluntarily to a near occasion of mortal sin. Therefore, according to the circumstances, dating may or may not be sinful. It is permissible when three conditions are fulfilled: 1) when both are mature enough to get married; 2) when the dating can lead to a future marriage; 3) when the man has the means to support a family.
Finally, the purpose of dating is to get to know each other but it is not a rehearsal of the married life. Behaviour between prospective partners must be limited to what is allowed between a brother and his sister. The certain sign of a future good marriage is a clean courtship.
Usually our conscience will tell us what actions are contrary to the virtue of holy purity but if we are uneasy about the matter, we should ask the advice of our parents or our confessor.
The sixth Commandment also forbids looks and words against the virtue of chastity because these also lessen the honour and respect which we should have for the human body and because they may lead on to actions against chastity.
"Know you not that the unjust shall not possess
the kingdom of God? Do not err: neither fornicators, nor idolaters,
nor adulterers, nor the effeminate, nor liars with mankind, nor thieves,
nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor railers, nor extortioners, shall possess
the kingdom of God." (1 Cor. 6, 9-10)
Since actions contrary to chastity are wrong, it follows that it is wrong to think of them or to desire them. God has made this clear by the ninth Commandment. We should, however, remember the difference between temptation and sin. Sometimes young people are worried by unchaste thoughts which keep troubling them. The Catechism tells us what a person should do when troubled in this way. We should pray for grace to resist the temptation, turn our thoughts to something good and occupy ourselves with some work or amusement which will distract us from the bad thoughts. It is also good to do some small penances, as Jesus said: "This kind of devil is not cast out but by prayer and fasting." (Mt. 17, 21) If the thoughts remain in spite of all efforts to get rid of them, there is no sin. Sin only occurs when the thoughts are deliberately consented to.
"Dearly beloved, I beseech you as strangers and
pilgrims, to refrain yourselves from carnal desires, which war against
the soul." (1 Peter 2, 11.)
While we are young, we should try to form a great
esteem for the virtue of chastity, or holy purity. Chastity is a
wonderful help to all the other virtues. If we can conquer our passions
when they tempt us to sins against this virtue, we shall find it easy to
conquer our other passions. Our Lord gave special praise to chastity
in His Sermon on the Mount when He said: "Blessed are the clean of heart,
for they shall see God." (St. Matthew, 5, 8.)
Chastity does indeed give nobility to the soul. Those who practise it develop moral strength and their actions, words and thoughts are worthy of sons of God and brothers of Jesus Christ. On the contrary, those who sin against chastity degrade the human nature that God has given them.
In the esteem of men, those who are chaste are looked
up to whilst those who are unchaste are despised. We may notice this
with regard to any of our companions who may indulge in bad conversation.
They may, perhaps, cause a laugh by it or get a reputation for being more
knowledgeable than others but secretly those who hear them have a feeling
of disgust for them.
Chastity gives great joy to the soul. Those who are chaste know that they are fulfilling God's will by showing honour and respect to the body which is His temple. They realise that God sees them always and are happy in the knowledge that they never do or say anything that they would be ashamed of in His sight. On the contrary, sins against chastity are followed by a great sense of shame and sadness.
"I beseech you, therefore, brethren, by the mercy of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, pleasing unto God, your reasonable service." (Rom. 12, 1.)
A. The chief natural means of guarding chastity is to avoid all dangers to that virtue, such as bad companions, improper dances, immodest dress, company-keeping (except with a view to marriage), and immodest books, plays and pictures.
B. Hard work. If we are diligent in our school work and any other work we may have to do, we shall have no time for temptations against chastity. Diligence in work also strengthens our will so that we can better resist temptation. Even when we are free, we should always try to have some occupation and not spend our time lazing, day-dreaming or just knocking about. We can help our parents in the home, enjoy some hobby or good reading, play games or go on excursions with good companions.
C. The Spirit of Mortification. Consider that if we conquer
ourselves in other things, we shall find it easier to conquer temptations
against chastity. So to conquer greed and the desire for comfort
is a help in preserving the virtue of chastity.
A. Prayer:
We have seen that when a soul receives sanctifying grace, the Holy Ghost comes to dwell in it in a special way. But the body is united to the soul to form one person and therefore the Holy Ghost dwells in it also. St. Paul speaks of our bodies as "temples of the Holy Ghost." (1 Corinthians, 6, 19.)
The thought of the presence of the Holy Ghost in both our soul and body should give us a great horror of sins of impurity which violate the temple in which He dwells. If tempted to commit such sins, we should pray to the Holy Ghost within us, that He may help us to preserve that temple undefiled.
D. Devotion to Our Lady:
Our Lady is our Mother. Every mother watches with loving care over her child and wishes to protect him from harm and help him to grow in health and beauty. So our Mother Mary wishes to preserve in us the beautiful virtue of chastity. If we ask her, especially through the Rosary, she will obtain from her Son the grace we need.
We should observe the familiar practice of saying every morning and every night, three Hail Marys; adding to each the aspiration: "O Mary, through thy Immaculate Conception, make my body pure and my soul holy." (300 days indulgence, morning and night.)
"Do not be surprised, beloved Sons, if, in speaking of courage, We wish to emphasise precisely the word personal. To form a united group as compact as yours is, animated not by desires of violence but determined to defend properly and loyally the highest and the most sacred desires - this is certainly an excellent thing; everyone supports everyone else, mutually, fraternally and, in this way, daring becomes easier.
But this courage must be shown, even if, in some place or other, at a certain moment, because of particular circumstances, you should find yourselves in the minority, few in number, perhaps, even alone, faced with an adversary bolder and more numerous. Be ready to resist to the end, against them all, in your affirmation of the law of God, in the defense of the faith and of the Church - should we add today also, in the defense of order, of progress and of social peace, on every occasion that the common good requires your collaboration?
Look at the first martyr, St. Stephen: one against
them all, to the very end. He surpassed, even in intelligence and
wisdom, his cruel foes who were unable to answer his argument and his proofs.
(Acts, 6, 10) It is men like that who are needed by the Church and
by society. (Pope Pius XII to the Youth of Rome, Dec. 8, 1948.)
"Your thoughts, your aspirations, your ideals, can be read on your faces; they resound in your acclamations. But nevertheless, since you expect a norm and a directive from the Father of Christendom, We intend to take it from the treasury of truth and virtue contained in the name which you bear: 'Catholic Youth,' that is to say, youth believing, living, holy.
1. Youth believing: it is youth which has noble aims - the reality, the power and the value of which it is thoroughly convinced. Youth which did not have such aims and such a conviction would, by that very fact, put itself outside the struggle; it would be dejected, scattered, reduced to powder by the strong and opposing pressures of contradictory ideas and movements.
You, on the contrary, have those noble aims; you wish to work for God's cause; you profess openly and in a virile fashion your faith in God; and you are reaching out with all your energy "like a torrent which a high spring thrusts" wherever the irreligion of the modern is to be conquered, wherever God is to be kept for your dear country. You wish to work for the cause of God and of his Church. (. . . )
Thus you have before you truly noble aims: the noblest
that youth, with its thirst for the ideal, can propose to itself; the only
ones which do not deceive and leave the souls disappointed; the only ones
which carry with them the certainty of final victory.
2. Living youth: the Catholic faith, the Church, is life. Messenger and mistress of peace and of love, the Church for two thousand years has nonetheless found herself constrained against her will to defend herself against the ever-renewed assaults of her enemies, whether open or hidden. But she does not fear; she is old but she is also eternally young; she has a history of inexhaustible richness, but she is not lost in that history; she is never solely of the past but always and primarily of the present; she lives in time because she is always for the here and now, for problems and their solutions, for the men who are today living on this earth. (. . . )
And you, too, wish to be a living youth, a youth
which integrally and courageously translates its convictions into action.
You will do this first of all in yourselves; then you will do it all together
in the various sectors of life; so that the family may remain Christian;
the school not act against the Church and the Christian family, but in
harmony with them; (. . . ) that all public life be ordered to promote
the general good and not particular interests of one party. (. . . )
3. Holy youth: that is to say robust but humble, knowing that with its own unaided strength it cannot make the grade, cannot face up either to interior foes or exterior; consequently, a youth which prays daily, and draws with fervour upon those springs of supernatural life which stream so abundantly from the Church of Christ.
A holy youth that is to say pure. You wish to be a youth "without fear and without reproach." We can even say "without fear because without reproach." A pure heart and a spotless conscience give us the right to look every man in the eye with serenity, and every event too, even death and above all God, who knows all things.
A holy youth: that is to say a respectful youth - with respect for parents; respect for authorities, ecclesiastical and civil; respect for the experience of one's elders; respect for women and girls; respect for all who bear the human stamp. You can work toward your ends by every morally licit means which the law puts into your hands, but always respect the man, even when he is your adversary.
A holy youth: that is to say a youth full of Christ. Bear Christ in your mind by his teaching; in your will by the observance of his law; in your heart by the Holy Eucharist. Christ must always rule and dominate your will and your action. For Him no sacrifice is too much; with Him all is possible: "Jesus Christ, yesterday, today and the same forever." (Heb. 13, 8.)
(Pope Pius XII to a Youth Movement, Jan. 4, 1948.)
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