HOW IT WORKS
Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. There are such unfortunates. They are not at fault; they seem to have been born that way. They are naturally incapable of grasping and developing a manner of living which demands rigorous honesty.Their chances are less than average. There are those, too, who suffer from grave emotional and mental disorders, but many of them do recover if they have the capacity to be honest.
Our stories disclose in a general way what we used to be like, what happened, and what we are like now. If you have decided you want what we have and are willing to go to any length to get it - then you are ready to take certain steps.
At some of these we balked. We thought we could find an easier, softer way. But we could not. With all the earnestness at our command, we beg of you to be fearless and through from the very start. Some of us have tried to hold on to our old ideas and the result was nil until we let go absolutely.
Remember that we deal with alcohol- cunning, baffling, powerful! Without help it is too much for us. But there is One who has all power - that One is God. May you find Him now!
Half measures availed us nothing.We stood at the turning point. We asked His protection and care with complete abandon.
Here are the steps we took, which are suggested as a program of recovery:
1. We admitted we were
powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become
unmanagable.
2. Came to believe that a power
greater than ourselves could restore us to
sanity.
3. Made a decision to turn our will and
our lives over to the care of God AS WE UNDERSTOOD
HIM.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral
inventory of ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, to
ourselves, and to another human being the exact
nature of our wrongs.
6. Were entirely ready to
have God remove all these defects of character.
7.
Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8.
Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became
willing to make amends to them all.
9. Made direct
amends to such people wherever possible, except when
to do so would injure them or others.
10.
Continued to take personal inventory and when we were
wrong promptly admitted it.
11. Sought through
prayer and meditation to improve our conscious
contact with God AS WE UNDERSTOOD HIM, praying only
for knowledge of his will for us and the power to
carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual
awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to
carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice
these principles in all our affairs.
Many of
us exclaimed, "What an order! I can't go through with
it." Do not be discouraged. No one among us has been
able to maintain anything like perfect adherence to
these principles. We are not saints. The point is,
that we are willing to grow along spiritual lines.
The principles we have set down are guides to
progress. We claim spiritual progress rather than
spiritual perfection.
Our description of the
alcoholic, the chapter to the agnostic,and our
personal adventures before and after make clear three
pertinent ideas:
(a) That we were alcoholic and could not
manage our own lives.
(b) That probably no human
power could have relieved our alcoholism.
(c) That
God could and would if He were sought.