Dear DR. Holmes:
Is it normal to have swelling in your vagina and yellowish fluid after intercourse? Thank you.
JASMIN
Dear JASMIN:Yes to the first and no to the sacond, but let me explain.
I think what you actually mean is a swelling of the *vulva*, rather than a swelling of the vagina. The vulva is the outer genitals, comprised, among other things, of the labia (both the inner and the outer lips) and the clitoris. All this (clitoris, the outer lips, and the inner lips if you pull back the flesh between that) comprises the lovely slit that is the entrance to the vagina--one can see--and, hopefuully, relish and enjoy--without the use of "instruments." If the lovemaking lasts long enough for blood to rush to the pelvic region, then, yes, very definitely, there is swelling one can see and, once again, hopefully relish and enjoy--after intercourse.
It is true that the vagina (canal through which menstrual blood flows and a baby comes out if the birth is natuaral as opposed to cesarean) also swells up during intercourse (for the very same reason of blood rushing there) but that is difficult to see without the help of a transparent (plastic) speculum.
Maybe I am funny that way, but I can think of a lot more exciting "tools" to take along than a transparent speculum when making love.
However, sex is an entirely personal matter and so...kung kinaliligaya mo (if it makes you happy) to see your vagina even pinker and puffier than usual, by all means, take a speculum along. Also, if you are particularly blessed to have a lover who encourages exploration of all kinds, before, during and after lovemaking, well then enjoy yourself to the hilt.
Yellowish fluid after intercourse sounds like a possible symptom of an STD (sexually transmitted disease), but there is no way one can tell for sure unless one takes a dioagnostic test (which I would strongly suggest you do asap). The sooner you know what this yellowish fluid signifies, the better. Please tell me if there is any other way I can help you.
All the best!
MG Holmes
Bonus column!
Dear Doctor Holmes:Is it possible to have a heart attack during sex?
Just had one and don't want another...
Dear "Just had one and don't want another"...Yes, it is possible to have a heart attack during sex. In fact, there is an actual term for it: "coital coronary."
I can understand your concern about avoiding a second heart attack. What I would suggest is that you speak to your cardiologist about it. He will know your medical history and will know what things to suggest and to avoid. If, however, you would want to ask me more about this, please feel free to write to me again with a little bit more information about yourself so that I can give you a much more information-based answer.
All the best!
MG Holmes
(BodyMind Vol. 3 No. 7 - First posted: 5-19-99)
