Your relationship with your puppy and the family, will depend
on on how you manage your puppy from a puppy, right through to mental and
physical maturity. A dog is a dog and not person. Therefore, they come
programmed with certain canine behaviours or survival techniques that people do
not always find particularly appealing or understandable. They cannot help it if
they are dogs, so we must HELP it. But that doesn't mean that a particular
behaviour cannot be managed. In fact, managing a puppy behaviour such as
mouthing, biting, barking, pawing, jumping, chewing etc. etc. is the *manner*
stage of personality development, and like it or not you are now at the steering
wheel...........so STEER. We have shar-pei that suffer from stress, separation
anxiety, some are afraid of thunder and lightening storms, others are skittish
towards people, some shar-pei are animal aggressive......so evaluation of the
moment must be considered. If some of these traits are breed specific then one
must learn to adapt to what works best with that particular situation. If you
know you cannot stand shopping when the malls are packed, you go during the
week when it is quieter. If you know your dog does not like other dogs, you walk
it on-leash at all times and simply avoid other animal contact. If your shar-pei
does not like someone inparticular, even after you have tried all behaviour
modification techniques, then, hopefully, you will have crate trained your
puppy/dog and you can remove the animal from the presence of this individual.
Many can be unforgiving, as I am sure many humans are, and hold personality
grudges for life. For any potential behaviour problems always contact a breeder
before a trainer. Learn to crate train, it also teaches puppy to be calmer natured by not allowing it to have the run of the house frantically when no one is home and barking at people passing by windows, again left in a yard unattended also teaches bad habits when no one is there to correct it. Learn to manage your puppy. Continue the
puppy education by attending obedience classes with your puppy so you learn how
to teach your puppy. When picking a new puppy, all puppies should exhibit
friendly natures with tails wagging. When my puppies arrive, their mother is with
them for the first 4 weeks to feed and nurture, I am there but on the
sidelines. After 4 weeks I AM MOM. They now learn how to cope with human
intervention and domestication. They are no longer pack animals but human pets,
and therefore I will teach them what will be needed for them hopefully to be
stable, well-socialized, confident additions to any given family.
A Little More on The Alpha Shar-Pei, when there is more than one dog!
Temperament, personality, hormones, health and genetics -what a combo to be put together to spell out why a select few of our dogs show aggression with and towards each other, and how to avoid it.
When we buy our first puppy, we generally look for laid back couch pototo personalites, we look for signs of good health and we check the temperaments of the adults or the parents of our potential new puppy and when we meet that little package that comes gift wrapped in wrinkles, we are certain we are home free, with no problems. Generally the majority of the time we are, HOWEVER there are circumstances that do trigger an aggressive or self defensive act of aggression amoungst dogs. Any breed of dog CAN do a LOT of damage IF THEY REALLY WANTED TO, but most of the time they are in a *reaction to an action* mode, and not out to hurt each other but rather establish who is boss within themselves.
To explain a little more, a bitch in heat, a male in tact (not neutered) that detects females in heat, the addition of another same sex animal into the house, physical or mental abuse, two dogs wanting the same bone or spot at the fence line to watch, or other small things could always trigger a potentially heated argument between dogs and depending on the apha nature of the animal it could escalate into a full fledged dog fight, if not addressed, and be dangerous to anyone that gets involved.
In 95% of all households peace prevails with our animals, we do not run into much more than the aloof, protect my home march that the single shar-pei exhibits within its own territory, gently on guard to its family, but the other 5% may hold potential, when there is more than one animal of same sexes and could escalate into something a little more worrysome.
Dogs fights can and do break out between 1) females that have housed together and gotten along well with other shar-pei in the house until their heat cycles and then all of a sudden the growling and fighting may start 2) males that have gotten along up until they hit about 13 months of age and then all of a sudden a fight takes place....why? how? what caused it?? Hormones and mental maturity takes place from about 13-18 months of age and all of a sudden there has to be a boss or top dog between males and females, and generally the way to this is through a growling episodes with each other that can escalate into a fight if not stopped. Same with females in heat, the hormones send the female into "looking for a male" cycles and nothing will get in the way not even their *past best friend* another female that may have dwelled in the house peacefully, and playfully before.
Most breeders are well equipped and experienced to break up a fight or know what triggers a dog fight off, and know how to ward off grumbling. I have always recommended in the past to my puppy buyers that I do not recommend two dogs of the same sex in the same house as pets. In many cases it does work out, and they get along faithfully for their lifetimes, making a liar out of me, however for the small percentage that DO NOT, it is not worth the risk because a fight when no one is home can be a bloodbath, and once it happens once, it can happen again. So if there must be two dogs, one of each sex is the safest, and in my books the most recommended.
When breeding, I was always in a position to keep my females separated when they were in heat, that way there were no worries, same with my males, separate them when the females were in heat. It becomes a full time watch when dogs do not get along as you are constantly watching to make sure that once the first fight or aggressive moment breaks out, that there is not a second or third, which could be triggered over food, or a bone or a place to lie or by a rush for a spot at the fence line to watch what is going on. Each thinks they are top dog. When females are in heat they are very sensitive to accidental touch, as they are also on guard to males trying to breed to them when not in their proper time to be bred, and therefore a person accidently touching a female in heat, or startling her may trigger a reaction to this action by her snapping or growling.
When and if a fight does break out, generally it breaks up quickly on its own when they have sorted out who won, but sometimes a fast loud holler NO, is warranted to interrupt their focus on each other and if it does turn into a fight, do not get in the middle of it up, if there are two people, one can pick up the back legs of both dogs rendering their back legs inactive and pull them back from each other, looks like you are going to do the wheelbarrow race, but this makes them feel defenseless and generally will break up the fight, some will stop the fight with the spraying of water, and some breeders have had some success with throwing a dark blanket over each one. Lets hope no one runs into a situation like this, but personally I have on several ocassions and it is truly fightening, but I have many years of experience and can deal with this situation quickly and effectively.
My bottom line opinion on this is it is better to prevent a situation like this from happening by avoiding the cause, two shar-pei are great and even three, so if you must have two go with the opposite sex to start and then add from there, however on the other side of the coin I do know shar-pei owners that have same sex animals together with no trouble at all. Spay and neuter immediately at 6 months and if you are breeding just stay on top of their body language. Avoid disputes over bones, food and common likes. You are in the end the alpha dog and the boss and YOU RULE THE ROOST.
Temperaments may also change if the dog is not feeling well or has been abused. It is their reaction to pain or discomfort mentally or physically and their actions may be to growl or snap, which is equal to our ouch or leave me alone, I am not feeling well. You get to know their body language and just like knowing when there is something wrong with one of your childred you also learn to recognize when something is wrong with your pet.
These dogs are wonderful gentle friends, companions and family additions, and the above is meant for the very few that do run into this type of situation. Like all breeds of dogs, and people, we all have our triggers that put us in bad moods, make us insecure and react to the act. So for those of you that have asked me about these situations I hope the above helps, again my opinion and once you have one shar-pei, you will more than likely want another, they are truly additive clowns and family pets.
If one does run into true aggression with any breed of dog, professional assistance of a trainer familiar with the breed or a breeder with good experience in this area should be able to assist in giving you good advice to help correct the problem.
Once you have to
decided to become a family with the addition of a canine companion, along with
that decision should be a committment as with children, to lifetime ownership,
teaching, dedication and if you are NOT WILLING to commit to that, you are
NOT READY to own a Chinese Shar-Pei, especially one of mine!
Puppy Play-Biting Management
Puppies bite but not to be nasty, or ill tempered. For puppies, play-biting or mouthing or puppy biting is their way to explore the world. Our human babies grab with their hands and put everything to their mouths to explore. Puppies play with their siblings or littermates and others, using their teeth, and their littermates hardly even notice this, or maybe you will hear a small yelp or two.
Play-biting is not a sign of aggression but it is a sign of play, and
puppy play is good. Puppy play is how puppies learn.
To us and our children, puppy bites hurt. Their tiny razor sharp teeth are like
needles. Puppies do not know that you aren't covered in tough canine skin like them so you need to do two jobs when the puppy is mouthing. First, teach the puppy not to bite hard. Second, teach the puppy not to bite at all.
Your puppy must learn that human flesh is much more sensitive than
the flesh of puppies and dogs. This is one of the most important things that you will teach your pup. An adult dog may bite if she has pain inflicted on her. Just imagine your beloved, well-behaved dog is asleep on the family room floor. A 3-year-old child comes running over, falls on your dog and sticks a finger in the dog's eye or ear or causes pain to your dog in some other fashion.
If your dog bit the child at this point, that would be normal behavior, or a *reaction to the action* on the dogs part. If you were sleeping on the sofa and someone woke you up by slapping you hard on the face, you would wake up in an
aggressive fashion, and nobody would say you have bad temperament!
Teaching the puppy that human flesh is sensitive (bite inhibition) is a must, just as you teach your children not bite and pull hair. You will be glad you did it, and hopefully it will never be tested.
One way to help your puppy learn is not to give her the opportunity to bite. Don't hold out your fingers or feet for your puppy to bite, but when your puppy does bites you as they will do when finding a toe or finger to munch on, say "No bites" loud and sharp to startle the puppy into recognizing that you are reacting to their action. I take my pups jowls and press their thick lips over their little sharp teeth and press hard enough that they can feel how much it hurts and again say *no bites*, they will yelp and get the message. Do this over and over until puppy starts to mouth gently.Do this
consistently, and your puppy will learn that she needs to be
careful when playing with humans. You may have to endure a few
uncomfortable nips during this process, but this is a great start to modifying your puppy behaviour, and also making puppy note that you are now MOMMA or ALPHA dog, and they sit up and listen. If you have any questions please feel free to email me, and again this is my breeder opinion and this information is not meant to replace or deter anyone from following their veterinarian's advice or another breeder opinion. These opinions are copyright of Shar-Pei Canadiana (C)2009.
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