Be Your Own Man, Make Your Rules

Columnist questions university poll;
challenges students to be individuals

Originally published February 18, 1999
by Adam Zurn

 

Fight becoming domesticated, avoid being average or within the norms, and for God's sake, don't do the right thing. Aren't you tired of being told what's cool and what's not? Aren't you sick of trying to please everyone? Haven't you had enough of being a conformist? This Wildman sure has!

The 1990s were suppose to be a decade of originality and individualism-not so. It has in fact been a decade of conformity and bandwagon jumping. If you try to be cool all the time, if you try to please everyone, if you're a conformist to avoid scrutiny then you're just an average person. Average is out right boring-defy it!

A Wildman isn't concerned with what other people think the right thing is or how to behave to best be accepted by ones peers. What it really comes down to is that existential idea of what's good for me isn't necessarily good for anyone else. Anyone else includes your parents, friends, the advertising industry, or Millersville University.

Look at the current Millersville propaganda campaign "Believe This!" The poster reads,

"Believe This! Most MU students do the right thing.
u Most MU men have 5 or fewer drinks when they party.
u Most MU women have 3 or fewer drinks when they party.
u Most MU students exercise 2 or more times a week.
u Most MU students do not smoke cigarettes or use marijuana.
u Most MU students had one or fewer sexual partners in the last year."

Real Wildmen are rebels, so that doesn't include following a bunch of preset rules made by a boring group of domesticated people. Don't let anyone tell you what is or isn't right. "Unto thine own self be true." If you want five or more drinks at a party, then do it.

If you need a long drag on a cigarette at the end of a hard day, then do it. If you've had less then one sexual partner in the last year, do something about it. Don't let Millersville take the fire out of you.

You're in college, and college is about having a good time. Be crazy and barbaric, there's nothing wrong with a little walk on the wild side. Besides, by becoming a Wildman now and questioning societies preset norms you just might find some real flaws in it.

Look at some of America's past Wildmen who questioned what the right thing was. At the time, they were branded rebels and troublemakers, but now we celebrate and honor them.

Wildmen do what they think is the right thing! Remember a little over 30 years ago when segregation laws were the "right thing." It took real Wildmen to say, "No, I don't think so, and I don't care if no one else does." What about 150 years ago when slavery was the "right thing" to do. Again, it took real Wildmen to say, "No, I don't think so!" Go even further back some 223 years ago when taxation without representation was the "right thing." It took real Wildmen to fill a harbor with tea to make the point that they didn't think it was the right thing.

Were these Wildmen rebels? Yes. Troublemakers? Definitely. Heroes? Without a doubt! So don't let anyone including Millersville tell you what's right because the second you stop questioning is the moment they try and pull a fast one.

Remember, Wildmen aren't concerned with what average people think is right. Wildmen do what they know is right, and that's what makes all the difference!

 

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