Cheating...its a low down dirty shame

It is a dirty thing, cheating....but what is really cheating and what is not?? Between the two of us we have very different views...as well we should. 'Tra seems to be a very commited person. Whereas i, well i guess i just hang out with the fellas too much and they've begun to rub off on me...commitment? me? not a chance! Of course I'll be quick to tell someone that I'm a very loyal caring giving person - which I am but I get bored easily - and as soon as you're not a challenge - I don't want you!! So we asked ourselves this dreary Baltimore morning what is cheating? The truth is cheating's BAD. but who decides whether its cheating or not? the cheater, the cheated, the cheatee, or Chike? (Just joking) Truth is cheating is different for everyone. The is the rule that if you are commited to someone you can look but not touch the fruits (and juices for all you island boys) of another. Then there are those real ghetto girls who'll walk with their man - catch a sideways look at another woman and will just start going off: "Oh no the hell you didn't (with a bob of their head usually covered in another being's hair) who do you think you are? You think that witch looks better than me... (looking in the direction the girl went) Hey you! Yeah you! Get your scrawny little behind over here. Who the hell do you think you are walking past my man in the street with that trashy two dollar outfit?" (Fellas if this sounds familiar- I'm So So SO sorry - I hope the lovin is as strong as the bark!!!!) Then there is the philosophy that cheating is if you do anything with someone else that is of equal or greater than what you've done with the one you're with. So if Joe and I have sex and I kiss Jack - its not cheating - but if Joe and I have only just kissed and I kiss Jack then I'm cheating...Oh I know 'Tra, not that I'd ever be dating someone named Joe or kissing someone named Jack....I guess you just have to know me to understand why! (No offense to all the Jacks and Joes of the world!)

Does this look like the face of someone who'd cheat? Hmmmm...

Cheat on me and DIE!!!!!

You can look but don't you dare touch!!!!

Don't we all wish it could be this easy???

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Okay - WE HAVE AN IDEA - how about we make this rule - just be honest... Let whoever you're with know what your idea of cheating is. Tell them whether or not you want a serious relationship or not. There really is nothing uglier than a couple of people running around not knowing what the other person is thinking. Not knowing quite what the other person means by their words and actions. Anywhere really is a good place to clear things up - on the phone, at a school, at a job (as long as the manager is as caring and understanding as ours), at a gym, in a car. P.S. ~> This is for the fellas and the girls who act like this too. When you think you are being slick - you're not - most of the time we know where you are going way before you think we do. and its not cute. If you are not my mother when I was 5, my boyfriend, or perhaps my doctor I'll bet you anything that you are really not that intrigued by my bellybutton. Most girls (and guys) know where you are going with that and more than you think they probably would respect you more (and you might even have a better chance) if you just be honest and tell them what you really want. (Note: can't hold us liable if you get smacked or contract an STD...take responsibility for your actions DAMN IT)

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