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Southern Flavor

I was born and raised in Louisiana.
I'm not sure at what age, the southern
training begins. I cannot go back in my mind
to a point of knowing certain "southern"
traditions. Somewhere along life, I learned
that southern girls do everything with class.
It is never correct to use bad manners, bad
language or bad posture.
Somewhere there must be a rule book of
sorts. The southern female must never be
loud or appear "manly", she must be "genteel".
A Southern woman cherishes family. The friends that
she makes become a part of her and are lasting.

I think one of the most important lessons
I learned was from my mother. Whenever she
decided to make something or do something
there was never a thought of "I can't do that".
The point was, if you didn't know how to do it,
find out. Read directions, ask someone or
sit down and figure it out.

I remember going through the police academy
and being one of three females. I came home
bone tired and mentally drained. I guess I told
my mother a dozen times that I didn't think
I could do this. I'm not sure what the words
were but something to the fact that things
would look better in the morning.

Then came nursing school. Oh Lord, what a
trial that was. I must have said "I quit"
hundreds of times. I would fall asleep with
books on my bed, med cards scattered
everywhere. Somehow I would make it one
more day until at last I finished.
I thought having babies was tough but
I assure you, nursing school was a mountain
for me.

I do think southern women are steel magnolias.
We do have grit but we must always maintain
all that we are
with class.

Thank you Mama for letting me believe
I could do anything, if I just put my mind to it.


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