Leed in Duitsland
(overgenomen
uit SCT)
Some people here might remember my postings about my wife, as I know many don't like it, I tried not to bother anybody here and didn't post much for quite some time. That's no problem, I can and do talk enough about it in RL. Now it happened again : Robert Hauger asked me in a private e-mail about my remark about a shooting in another posting, I wanted to answer a short reply and couldn't start writing. And decided then also to post it here. It's not the full story and maybe confusing and repelling for many, but maybe especially some people who know me want to hear it. For the ones who don't like reading stories of falangs whining how bad they got treated in thailand : You don't have to read it.
Twice I had to call police in Germany, when she freaked out completly and tried to attack me with a knife from the kitchen. Winter 98/99 I bought a ricefarm for her mother, 99/00 I bought a house and a motorbike for them, 15 min. after I paid the last bill of the house she attacked me with a really big knife, I could run faster than she, all her family and friends were around, nobody helped me, she disappeared with the bike, 2 days later she came back and immediately attacked me again, again I was faster and nobody helped me, I closed myself up in her mothers old house, she came back with one of their old shotpistols, sorry, I'm not much into guns, a pistol with one very big cartrige full of small lead-balls, she searched around and under the house and tried to target at me through the many holes in the old wooden floor, it was night and I closed all lights and tried to hide as good as possible and so she couldn't see me.
I left, some weeks later just before I left Thailand she came to me and begged for pardon, I took her back with me to Germany, only to find out that she had stolen all the money I had left in her mother's accout for furniture and so for the house in order to marry one of her former thai-boyfriends. That was where I seriously threw her out the first time. I couldn't get a quick divorce, In Germany you have to live 1 year separated before you can start with it. Three months later she came back broken and crying, I was stupid as always to believe her, January 2001 she did run away, told me because she was to afraid to do our usual 7 weeks Thailand because of the mess she had made there the year before, when I was in thailand and after that for work in russia, she even managed to convinced my parents that she was making everything good now for me.
Four days after I came back from Russia, I got a hint that she had managed to bring one of her former Thai-husbands (another one than the one she married in her village a year before) to Germany and was hiding him in our neighbours (a thai-lady) flat, where she obviously spent too much time at that moment for *bible reading*, I went in that flat and dicovered him, but left immediately not to get into a fight, last year I paid with a broken foot and 3 month ill for a fight in Thailand. Iīve thrown her out now, itīs really more than enough, but I still wonīt get a quick or easy divorce, I tried to get her thrown out of Germany, they canīt do anything about that, the husband whoīs papers I found isnīt registered somewhere, maybe still in thailand and I saw another guy or he has only a touristvisum and that doesnīt get registered.
But they found a report about her, that she and her worst Thai girlfriend have stolen about 5000 US$ from somebody and they have to show up at court, in case she getīs convicted, they might throw her out of Germany, but probably only after several severe delicts like that one. Anyway, I waited much to long, maybe Iīm lucky to have to pay *only* about 3000 US$ for my divorce and no support to her, but you never know how German divorce-laws turn out for you. She lied everyday to me for 4 and half years now, with big things and small things, about her age, about her kids, about the number of her kids, about what she is doing when she didnīt come home at night and I fuckinīstill miss her. One sad thing is, that you start to hate Thais in a certain way, you donīt believe much what Thais say to you, but somehow you still canīt stop thinking the usual thoughts : when will you be able to visit Thailand again, is there any way to make a living in Thailand, you know that it wouldnīt turn out for you when even a crazy small girl can treat you like that, when will you be old and retired enough to live in thailand ?
Just the usual thoughts of an Thailand-addict. Another sad thing is : what I miss most especially when I'm in Thailand are the times upcountry, I see no way to have that and stay there without of a close relationship to a Thai family, so I am *tourist* again.
Don't get me wrong, as I said in other postings, she wasn't from the bar scene, sure she isn't very educated and got many problems, but she has a lot of good typical Thai parts too.
When I told my parents more than 4 years ago, that I will bring a Thai-girl to Germany, they were fuckin' shocked and angry. After they had met her several times, they were rather happy about my choice. For nearly 2 years. Since 2 years they don't want to see her and my wife is to scared to visit them.
I hope it's over soon and I get my time to calm down my often bad thoughts about Thais and Thailand, as I know that I never will be able to finish with that country.
Due to a job it will probably take 1 week before I'll have internet again. I'll comeback next monday and look for that thread.
Karl