well, I'm 23 1/2 as of today (I know, I know... I have too much time to think...) and so I started reflecting upon what's currently good and bad about my life... here's the little list I came up with...
good: good health, no financial problems, good family support, I've graduated college, lots of friends, no situations have arisen that I haven't been able to somehow overcome - no matter how badly I may have come through it, I pretty much like who I am, I'm still a virgin...
bad: still a bit socially inept, behind in life experiences, still living at home, working retail, not much experience with girls at all, still don't totally know myself, still a virgin...
it's hard to weigh the goods and the bads - it seems to come up pretty even... maybe that's why I'm at 50% on my h/s scale at the moment... I'm working on gaining more experience in most of the bad areas, but my bad luck with the opposite sex I believe to be out of my control... there's nothing more inconsistent, exhausting, and totally baffling to deal with... = )... prolly better off laying low for a while...