A Journey
Into My Life-Style
CirrTone came 2 fruition 5 years ago N da backroom of a local
leather bar. It was 2 B My first S/M experience wit someone &
the turning point N My life. Afta the experience, I realized dat
many things I had been questioning, seemed perfectly clear,
simply put, this was 4 Me.
It wasn't until My first submissive dat My role as a Dom/Master
became a personality that easily co-existed wit the identity
friends & family had known.
Born and raised in Brooklyn, it was a struggle 2 maintain My
sanity & conviction that it was all good. I was blessed 2
have both street & book knowledge which allowed Me 2
maintain. Finding a community was more the struggle since My
Straight peeps were in the dark bout how I got down & My gay
friends considered Me confused cause I flipped the script
sometimes. As if that wasn't enuff, very few were open 2
understandin how SM factored N2 the picture. But when all was
said & done, I held on tight 2 peeps who embraced Me 4 who I
am & and I kicked all the others 2 the curb. Life is 2 short
2 live My life 4 others. I enjoy relationships wit both Men &
Women, & there ain't nothin wrong wit letting out the freak N
da Bedroom.
I've learned through trials & tribulations that the best approach is just 2 keep it real. For those who are real enuff 2 inquire, then I feel I should B real enuff to represent. In short:
'Keep it Gator,
Keep it Global, 3 Suburbans & a Hearse'
2 illustrate My point, I'll flash back 2 a proud momemt. While
enrolled N college, i've was able 2 secure My States
Certification as a Licensed Family Worker, helping 2 empower
families 2 become more self reliant & less dependant on
government & state funding. One of da classes explored
various family dynamic structures & focused on dealing wit
individuals & behavioral modification-a subject which I had
plenty of knowledge from My experience in BDSM.
The class afforded Me the opportunity 2 educate My fellow classmates N the realm of Sado-Masochism & 2 lie 2 rest da misconceptions, which the 'Average American' conceptualize about such practices. I felt it was My duty (Me keepin it Real) 2 educate those students who dealt with families on a daily basis, 2 understand that this existence, just like Me, was as normal a behavior as the families that they interacted with. They had grown 2 luv & value My opinion N class witout knowledge of what I did behind closed doors. Since their categorization of Me had been normal, then evidently those who R in da life (SM) are as normal as I, as well. Some opinions were changed or at least rethought, which was a huge step N da right direction.
Why do I share this information with you?
There are two reasons. One, before engaging in dialogue, it is
important that anyone who decides to seek dialogue or share My
company know who I am as a person. 2 understand My mindset wit
relationship 2 My sexual desires, emotional stability, and My
integrity as a human being is partly My intent. With any thing in
life, always keep an open Mind.
Two, dialogue usually occurs in a setting conducive 2 our
lifestyle, B it Hetero, Homo or otherwise. This dialogue occurs
usually in a bar, walking down the street, on the phone or
through internet capabilities such as this. While this adds to
the excitement, there are many factors that can alter ones
impression & behavior when getting 2 know someone. It is My
wish that you review this site & the content within
undistracted & think about who I am & what I may bring
new to your life, as well as you 2 Mine.
People enter your life 4 certain reasons & at any given time. The reasons are not divulged initially, but as a Pagan I feel that they are there 4 a reason. Part of the goal is 2 learn from them as mush as possible 4 they most assuredly have something 2 share or impart.
As they saying goes,
"There are things you know, things you don't know, and things you don't know you don't know.' For Me ignorance is not based on the latter premise, but based on what you don't know.
Many hours of thought & time have been committed 2 creating
dis site. It is in part, a testament 2 My beliefs & value
system. Once U have reviewed & reflected on the words that I
have written it is My hope that you 2 will share in some of My
ideologies or at least question judgments & values which have
given U pause 4 speculation while here.