~~LIES~~~
Something we tend to forget when chatting!
The avatar though in most cases are sexy and smiling.
Someone is behind each avatar, with a heart, real feelings, pain, and tears.
We all go to chat for various reasons, some for fun, some just because we are lonely, 
some searching for human companionship. Others just out for whoever will 
stimulate their hidden desires.Then  click off, forget the name, who they really are, or 
what their life is all about..  Until  they find themselves short of someone's attention and 
 they again search out their prey.Someone once said   "there are predators and 
victims in chat.". I once did not really understand that statement.
We all can  have fun, make friends, escape from our normal routine of life. 
No where does that mean we have to be phony, pretend, tell lies to get some 
superficial  desires met,  fulfill some sort of demented  game or portray to be
 something that we are not. We just have to be honest in what we want.  We  don't 
 have to victimize the ones that are truly searching for a friend, a lover,
 a companion, because they are lonely.  We get what we put into life, and when we use
 people's vulnerable side to gain some satisfaction or control, we only
 fulfill it for the moment. We accomplish nothing but hurting someone and 
ourselves, because we lose people's trust, but most of all we lose our humanity. 
Just remember no love, thrill, desire or  moment of laughter is worth the pain
 we cause someone when  it is based on 
LIES!