Why love and binding spells are wrong

Bide in the wiccan law, 'ye must
in perfect love and perfect trust
eight words the wiccan rede fulfill,
and 'ye harm none, do what thou will

Ever mind the rule of three,
three times what thou giveth returns to thee.
Follow this with mind and heart,
Merry 'ye meet and merry 'ye part.

Many a brand-new wiccan chooses the religion so they can cast love spells and binding spells. Well it is going against the wiccan rede to cast these. If you are a new wiccan, and considering these spells, I strongly suggest that you don't cast either of them. Binding spells effect another's will. So do love spells. By casting these spells you are willing another person to do your bidding, which strongly goes against the rede. Think nothing will happen? Ever mind the law of three, three times what thou giveth returns to thee. I know this for a fact. A long time ago I was playing an online game, where you are in a kingdom with several other players. One of the players in my kingdom was ruining the game for me, and I cast a binding spell on him. Trust me, I regret it. I have not been able to log in properly to my game since. It may not sound bad, but bigger binding spells can lead to bigger trouble. Cast protection spells instead, unless you are in like a life and death situation.