Inspirational
Stories
Feel
like a million bucks
Stupid idiot, what's wrong with you? Everybody has heard these
words echoing through the halls, but have you been on the
other side?
I have.
One question that was asked of me after school one day has
lingered in my mind since the day it slipped out of the lips
of a young boy.
As a joke two kids asked if I had a disease or something.
This shouldn't
have been a problem, but the truth was I did.
I contracted
a debilitating disease and the medication caused
me to gain an excessive amount of weight. When I was put on
these steroids
the doctors told me about each of the side effects but they
never
told me I'd lose every friend I ever had.
Not many
people remember me in the sixth grade. I was the girl
who sat in the back of the room. Nobody realized I was there,
not even the
teachers. I would walk in and sit down never talking to anybody.
I didn't
have any real friends.
It was
the lowest point of my life! I'm glad nobody remembers
who I was. The months I spent in the hospital helped people
forget. The
hospital was great. Nobody there criticized me for how I looked.
I wasn't
laughed at when I couldn't do something normal kids could
do. The hospital
had become my escape.
Going
back to school seemed like torture. Kids in the junior
high were so cruel. There wasn't a day when someone didn't
ask if I had
eaten an elephant or if I were the new version of the Goodyear
blimp.
Kids avoided
eye contact and would move to opposite ends of the
hall. Behind my back they called me cabbage patch girl. They
never
thought I knew. They didn't care if I stayed up all night
crying. They
never knew how bad it hurt. There were times when I would
just sit and
ponder my existence and question what it would be like for
everybody with
out me here.
So many
things could have been done to prevent these feelings
of despair. A simple "hi" without a smirk, a true
smile; not a half-hearted
attempt.
You see,
this isn't just another story to me, it is me. Now I
can look back on this and say it was all for the better; but
at the time
I was a child who felt lonely and forgotten.
One thing
I learned is that each person, no matter what others
may think, has feelings. A simple, yet most appreciated thing
doesn't have
to be big, it can take as little as a second but may change
the day for a
lot of people.
All it
takes is a note saying, "you're awesome" or "I
appreciate you." Try handing a note like that to anybody.
Not only do they feel
happier but you will be too.
There
are too many youth who don't know what they're worth.
They feel lost and forgotten just like I did.
You could look through your yearbook and find those people,
most of you could probably think of one now. These people
are in your life
today, but the average person chooses to do nothing about
it.
But what
type of person are you? Are you the one who goes out
of your way to avoid someone, or do you make it a point to
say hi? What you
do in a moment's time, can have a tremendous effect on a person
for the
rest of their life. And as someone once said,"We are
here to make
people feel like a million bucks, not two cents."
-Sadiedawn

Good
News
Robert De Vincenzo, the great Argentine golfer, once won a
tournament and, after receiving the check and smiling for
the cameras, he went to the clubhouse and prepared to leave.
Some time later, he walked alone to his car in the parking
lot and was approached by a young woman. She congratulated
him on his victory and then told him that her child was seriously
ill and near death. She did not know how she could pay the
doctor’s bills and hospital expenses.
De Vincenzo was touched by her story, and he took out a pen
and endorsed his winning check for payment to the woman. "Make
some good days for the baby," he said as he pressed the
check into her hand.
The next
week he was having lunch in a country club when a Professional
Golf
Association official came to his table. "Some of the
boys in the parking lot last week told me you met a young
woman there after you won that tournament." De Vincenzo
nodded. "Well," said the official, "I have
news for you. She’s a phony. She has no sick baby. She’s
not even married. She fleeced you, my friend."
"You
mean there is no baby who is dying?" said De Vincenzo.
"That’s
right," said the official.
"That’s
the best news I’ve heard all week." De Vincenzo
said.
-From
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