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Ways to Find Answers to Life's Questions Using Intuition
My favorite definition of intuition came from
a 15-year-old girl I know who said, "Intuition is where,
like, you know something, but like, where did it come from?"
I believe that intuition is a reliable inner resource for
wisdom to guide our lives. Fortunately, everyone has it, and
we are capable of developing it for practical use in everyday
life as well as for discovering and achieving life goals.
Learn to listen to your intuition and learn from it by tuning
in to these four cues.
1.
Inner Voice
Many people report a "still, quiet inner
voice." Your intuition will always communicate with you
in a compassionate, loving manner that is perceptibly different
from your normal inner chatter. If your inner voice seems
quiet, try asking yourself a question like "What is the
best course of action to take?" Pause for a moment and
then think about all the options you've just been given. Does
any one leap out as the best decision? If not, go deeper and
ask the question again. A new answer may emerge. Write your
results in your journal. Then, jot down three small action
steps that can you take that will move you in the direction
you chose.
2.
Dreams
You can receive a wealth of guidance when
you learn to ask for intuitive insight from your dreams. Our
minds are still active and racing with thoughts while we sleep.
As we replay our daily anxieties in our dream state, we are
sometimes given answers and solutions to our problems. Often,
these answers are revealed to us through symbols. A few years
ago, I was torn between staying at my full-time job at a software
company and leaving to devote my energies to my own business.
I was still thinking about my decision when I drifted off
to sleep one night. I dreamed that I was out on a lake with
my feet planted in two different canoes both pointed in different
directions. I knew then that I couldn't pursue both vocations
and have the energy to realize my goal. I gave my notice the
next day and haven't regretted it for a moment. Here are some
ways that you can tune in to your dreams and get the answers
you need:
Write a few paragraphs about your concern
or problem.
Try to summarize the issue in a question,
and state the question to yourself as you drift off to sleep.
Before you become fully awake in the morning,
ask yourself, "What is the answer to my question?"
Sometimes you may remember a specific dream and feel that
you have your answer in the dream's symbolism.
You may not remember the details of the dream
but you may feel that you've awakened with an intuitive answer
to your problem. That's an equally valid way of receiving
intuitive guidance in your sleep.
3.
Emotions
Intuitive information often comes through
your feelings or emotions. You may simply "feel right"
about a certain course of action. Or you might experience
a sense of distrust about an individual or situation. Part
of learning to trust your intuition is remembering to ask,
"Does this decision make me happy?" or, "Do
I feel energized by this decision?" There are many ways
to ask the question and experience the answer but here's the
truth: Your intuition will provide you with information to
make positive choices. Would it make sense for you to be sent
to earth with a magnificent inner guidance system and every
time you trusted it you felt awful? No!
4.
Physical Sensations
The Japanese call intuition "stomach
art." We call such sensations a "gut feeling."
You might find that your body feels heavy if a decision you've
made is wrong. Your body may feel light or experience "chills"
if it is the correct path for you. Here's an example of how
these sensations guide us: You've just been offered the "perfect
job." You notice that when you think about accepting
the position your body feels heavy or there's a knot in your
stomach.
If you feel physically uncomfortable when
you think about the job, your intuition is imploring you to
consider your choices. You can ask more questions and do more
research about the position and the company to see if you
can determine the cause of your intuitive response. Or, you
can understand that your intuition is warning you away from
this company for reasons you may not comprehend on a rational
level. Intuition may lead you to pursue other opportunities
based on those physical sensations. How many times have you
ignored signals your body gave you only to later say to yourself,
"I wish I'd trusted my gut instinct?"
- Lynn Robinson
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