First and Foremost remember it is your Wedding and you can make it be anything you want it to be.

There are no hard and set rules despite what some will tell you. You can have a carbon copy of a straight wedding
or create your own unique day or a combination of both it is whatever feels right for you.

Our wedding was held at our home and was more or less traditionally based with a few exceptions.
The wedding party entered with the ring bearer first, then the best men, then Bill and I entered together.
No one gave anyone away.We did not toss a bouquet.
We allowed guest to take home some of the flowers that were around the property and on the tables.

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