There was a woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal illness and had
been given three months to live. So as she was getting her things "in order," she contacted her pastor and had him come to her house to discuss certain aspects of her final wishes.
She told him which songs she wanted sung at the service, what scriptures
she would like read, and what outfit she wanted to be buried in. The woman also requested to be buried with her favorite Bible.
Everything was in order and the pastor was preparing to leave when the
woman suddenly remembered something very important to her.
"There's one more thing," she said excitedly.
"What's that?" came the pastor's reply.
"This is very important," the woman continued. "I want to be buried with a fork in my right hand."
The pastor stood looking at the woman, not knowing quite what to say. "That surprises you, doesn't it?" the woman asked.
"Well, to be honest, I'm puzzled by the request," said the pastor.
The woman explained. "In all my years of attending church socials and
potluck dinners, I always remember that when the dishes of the main
course were being cleared, someone would inevitably lean over and say,
'Keep your fork."
It was my favorite part because I knew that something better was
coming...like velvety chocolate cake or deep-dish apple pie.
Something wonderful, and with substance! So, I just want people to see
me there in that casket with a fork in my hand and I want them to wonder
"What's with the fork?".
Then I want you to tell them: "Keep your fork....the best is yet to
come."
The pastor's eyes welled up with tears of joy as he hugged the woman
good-bye. He knew this would be one of the last times he would see her
before her death. But he also knew that the woman had a better grasp of
heaven than he did. She KNEW that something better was coming.
At the funeral people were walking by the woman's casket and they saw
the pretty dress she was wearing another favorite Bible and the fork
placed in her right hand.
Over and over, the pastor heard the question "What's with the fork?"
And over and over he smiled.
During his message, the pastor told the people of the conversation he
had with the woman shortly before she died. He also told them about the
fork and about what it symbolized to her.
The pastor told the people how he could not stop thinking about the fork
and
told them that they probably would not be able to stop thinking about it
either.
He was right.
So the next time you reach down for your fork, let it remind you ever so gently, that the best is yet to come.
And keep your fork!
(so you can "have a fork to use")
so, no matter what stage your life is at,
the best is yet to come...