"Pole Positions"
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This move puts
a new twist on a familiar position.
How
to do it: She's on her back, in the missionary position. Simply move to
the extreme right -- or left -- while maintaining penetration. Make it a
complete swivel so that the two of you are forming a cross.
Degree
of difficulty: It's pretty easy on the lady. She's simply on her back. The
guy, however, has to hold himself up by his arms. It's no worse than the
missionary position, except you can't occasionally rest during close,
passionate kissing. The woman will need to keep her legs spread wide to help
maintain the guy's penetration.
Is
it good for you? There's some unique pressure on the penis, and it's
pleasant to feel her against you in a new manner. But this is also a good trick
for cooling down after prolonged stroking. Simple movements provide a lot of
feeling here, which should give the guy a chance to calm down and keep the
action going longer.
Is
it good for her? In addition to giving her some fresh air, there are also
very interesting sensations going on here. Most women enjoy a break from
standard missionary cavorting.
Bumpy Ride
Want to take a
ride in the rumble seat? Then this position is for you, although you can find
it just as fun at home as in the Honda.
How
to do it: The guy sits upright on the edge of the bed, or the couch or
maybe the backseat of his car -- for old time's sake. Now the woman sits on his
lap, sidesaddle. She puts her feet to the right -- or left -- of the guy. She
puts her hands behind her for support and maybe a little extra bounce. Then she
lowers herself, and penetration is achieved.
Degree
of difficulty: This is easy for the guy. A good strong grip at her ass is
recommended. The woman has to do most of the work. If you're on the couch, then
the lady can use the armrest for leverage. In bed, however, let her lean back.
It provides you more access to her body, and it allows her to have more freedom
in her movements.
Is
it good for you? Having her keep her legs together creates some
interesting sensations. We recommend raising your knees to block her from being
able to spread any more than absolutely necessary. The position usually leads
to women pumping away with great enthusiasm -- never a bad thing.
Surprise your
gal by taking a very common position and turning it into some exciting new sex.
How
to do it: Let her get on top. Do it on the floor, unless you've got a
really firm mattress. Now, tell her to rise up with you, as you bring yourself
up on all fours while facing upward. Keep your back straight. You pretty much
are aiming to look like a coffee table. She should now be standing on her feet,
crouched down and maintaining the point of penetration. Have her put her hands
on your shoulders for some balance, and let her gyrate away.
Degree
of difficulty: It's a surprisingly easy position to reach. Maintaining it,
however, can be a little tougher. Barring any back problems, you should be able
to maintain this one for about a full minute. She'll want longer, but let's be
realistic.
Is
it good for you? It will stoke your girlfriend's willingness to show some
abandon.
Is
it good for her? She has complete control over the stroking and the angle
of penetration. So that would be...yes.
This is one of
those positions in which getting there is half the fun.
How
to do it: Have two sturdy padded chairs side by side with some space in
between. You stand her in between the two chairs, and lean her back over the
arms of one of them (preferably the more padded chair). Have her ass on the
left arm of the chair, and have her leaning over the seat facing upward with
her upper back resting against the right arm. With your help, the woman puts
her left leg over the arm of that second chair. Now put all your weight on one
leg, and put your left leg back on that second chair. It's a pretty easy way to
get the sensation of suspended sex. For a little extra balance, entwine your
left leg with hers.
Degree
of difficulty: Concentrate on your balance -- keep your weight on that right
leg. All of the gal's weight should be concentrated on her fine ass. Get
yourself anchored properly, and the hardest part becomes managing the stroking.
Let her stay still, and you pivot your hips. The hardest part might be not
laughing while you maneuver into position.
Is
it good for you? It certainly provides a sense of accomplishment, and
it's a great cheap thrill. And cheap thrills always lead to renewed enthusiasm
in the more traditional sexual positions.
Is
it good for her? It's better than good. It's a very passionate position.
Ladies like passion, so take advantage of this opportunity to provide long,
probing kisses. As long as the gal is securely supported, she should enjoy this
immensely.
Here's another
position that blurs the distinction between kinky and cuddly.
How
to do it: Press yourself tightly against her from behind at the foot of
the bed, and slowly pull her back as you sit on the edge of the bed.
Penetration can be achieved during the descent. Recline further, taking her
with you, but don't lean back all the way onto your back. Anchor yourselves by
having both your legs intertwined.
Degree
of difficulty: Assuming you have a large penis, this is a very relaxing
position. Otherwise, it may take some effort to maintain the penetration.
That's about the worst of it, though. Otherwise, you're just reclining with
your sweetheart.
Is
it good for you? It's a nice feeling, especially when she keeps her legs
together for some improved pressure at penetration. It's left to you to do the
work. Keep the rhythm going until you're near climax, and then turn her over
and start the kinkier rutting. By then, it's already been very romantic, and
she'll be turned on enough to welcome the change of pace.
Is
it good for her? It's good, but it gets better if you start masturbating
her. Women like the sense of exposure, but they also want to feel like they're
involved with you. Keep your hands busy between her legs, and try to get her
off a few times before it's your turn. That will make it very entertaining for
both parties.
Get your feet
off the ottoman for this position.
How
to do it: Begin with her stomach against an ottoman's surface. Let her
sprawl out for maximum comfort. You're standing behind her as she faces down.
Lift her legs in a style similar to the wheelbarrow position and achieve
penetration. Arrange it so her ass is solidly over the ottoman. With hard
steady strokes, you should be doing some seriously memorable intercourse. It's
thoughtful to keep her legs lifted, but some women will be happier spreading
them out as they position themselves to their own preference.
Degree
of difficulty: Get a rowing machine if you haven't got the leg power to have
sex from a standing position. Women don't even have to be particularly supple
to provide the maximum access that this position allows. By the way, it would
be a bad idea to use a spindly ottoman from Ikea.
Is
it good for you? The entire atmosphere of the position has a certain
inherent studliness. For true porn-star action, consider keeping the pose and
finishing with anal sex. The position is ideal for an experienced lady, and a
nice way to introduce anal to an inexperienced lady.
Is
it good for her? Women tend to be remarkably responsive in this position.
The penetration can be very deep with real impact. Don't get too caught up in
yourself, however. Make sure her legs don't tire by occasionally lifting them.
Also, take advantage of your ability to hold her by the hips. Your hands can
wander from there, allowing you to touch her in a variety of places.
Add a little
edginess to your sex life with some help from the side of the bed.
How
to do it: Officially, you're just getting set to do it doggie-style. But
you'll want to be close to the edge of the bed, because she'll need some
support for what you have in mind. Put her on all fours, and mount her. Then
have her put her arm on the edge of the mattress. Take her opposing leg, and
lift it as high as she can easily handle. A tall, lithe gal might end up with
her leg resting on your shoulder. Shorter, less lithe women may end up with
their leg resting in the crook of your elbow.
Degree
of difficulty: What you have here is a suspended sex position with a minimum
of heavy lifting. The only question is how high that lady can lift her leg.
Is
it good for you? There's a lot of freedom. It feels sexy to have a lady's
leg pressing against you. Penetration is very open and comfortable. There's
plenty of room to adjust the speed of your thrusting.
Is
it good for her? It takes a while to learn how to adjust her to keep her
comfortable. Still, many women find this position easy to maintain. Most women
like the angle of penetration and the exposure to the air. Don't neglect the
hip-pumping action, though -- it's asking a bit much for the woman to thrust
back in this position.
"I believe I can fly" isn't just an irritating
song that's been used in too many commercials and high school graduation
ceremonies. It's also the belief of those who dare to get ambitious to the
point of stupidity in their sexual positions.
How
to do it: The man and woman are naked and standing, with her in front.
She bends over and you penetrate her -- if she's taller than you, you may need
her to bend her knees. Support her at the waist, as she reaches back to grasp
you by your arms. Now get ready to take some added weight. She's about to lean
forward completely and let her legs pivot up and off the floor. Then you make
the short quick thrusts this position allows.
Degree
of difficulty: Sounds tough, right? But nowhere in the rules does it say that
she can't hold onto a bookshelf or countertop, or maybe reach down to balance
herself on a coffee table. It's not as dramatic, but we'll allow it. It's also
not cheating to move the gal over to the bed. If your mattress is high enough,
she can put a lot of weight on it, freeing you to support her legs and thrust
away.
Is
it good for you? Make sure you have a good hold on the woman, and you'll
find some great deep penetration -- for added leverage, you know.
Is
it good for her? If she can really reach out and soar, so to speak, then
she can experience a few interesting angles of penetration. That can make up
for the limited thrusting this position affords. The Flying F is about as
liberating as it gets for a woman.
What makes this
position fascinating is that ladies love it, and the guy doesn't have to do any
real work. All he has to do is lie there and have a great time.
How
to do it: Just lie on your back with your knees up. Have her straddle you
at your waist facing your feet, and then lower herself. Penetration should be
achieved as she bends her knees and puts her feet behind her, toward your head.
Now she leans forward and puts a lot of weight against your legs. You've pretty
much done a variation on ye olde doggie-style, except this time it's her knees
that get rug burn. Now have her put her hands on her knees, and tell her to
pump away.
Degree
of difficulty: For you, very little. For her, not much at all. And even when
you decide to pitch in with more than your fair share, things should still be
pretty easy. Resist the urge to join in on the thrusting. She'll find her own
preferred rhythm and angle, which should be best left alone. But your hands
have plenty of freedom, and they should be exploring mainly at the crux.
Is
it good for you? You're on your back, she's doing all the thrusting, and
there's great penetration. Unless you're really obsessive about breasts, this
is really good for you.
Is
it good for her? This is one of the few sure things that many females
have in the coital orgasm sweepstakes. She can manipulate you to be directly on
her preferred parts. On the off chance that she's having any trouble hitting a
groove, then encourage her to lean back more.
This is a
position for sweet intimate lovemaking or wild nookie -- whichever you prefer.
How
to do it: She goes down to the edge of the bed. Then she curls herself up
in a fetal position, lying on her side. Align her ass on the edge of the bed.
Position yourself standing right against the edge of the bed. You can mount her
while you're standing, although we recommend getting out the ottoman or
something else reliably sturdy. Push it to the end of the bed, get on it in a
kneeling position and go to town.
Degree
of difficulty: Really, it doesn't get much easier than this. She's lying down,
and you're either standing or kneeling.
Is
it good for you? If she's curled up tight enough, the regular thrusting
can be really great. While you may not be able to let your hands roam as much
as you'd like, you have a lot of access to stroking her hair, caressing her
back and playing with her ass. She'll like that, which works in your favor.
Is
it good for her? Don't insist that she keep herself curled up into a ball
-- although many ladies claim it's reallly exciting. She's able to align herself
nicely with your cock. She's also being taken in a way that gives a lot of
freedom. There's no weight on her while you pound away as hard or as slowly as
she likes. It's also simple for the woman to masturbate during sex. Those are
big pluses for any position.
Intimate Detached
We are
routinely taught that sex is all about groping and entwining. Most sexual
positions rely upon body parts pressing upon each other and providing balance.
It's time to try out a position that only requires the most basic touching.
How
to do it: The man stands naked. The lady sits on top of a surface that
allows full access from behind. If your mattress is particularly sturdy, she
can be sitting at the edge of the bed with her legs bent or straight forward.
Otherwise, we recommend sitting on top of a padded chair.
After making
sure she's secure, the woman should lean forward, leaving her ass prominently
displayed. The man moves forward and penetrates. After that, it's nothing but
steady stroking. No touching. He doesn't wrap his arms around her. She doesn't
reach back to caress him.
Degree
of difficulty: This one is particularly easy, because the man and woman are
relying strictly on themselves to maintain balance. Nobody's putting any undue
pressure on the other.
Is
it good for you? Some guys might protest, "Why don't I get to rub my
hands all over her fine bod?" If you need a hug that badly, call a shrink.
If you want sensations, then marvel at this unique thrill. The gal should be
nicely positioned to provide great pressure, and you'll be enjoying how your
cock has become the total focus of any sexual friction.
Is
it good for her? Women don't live to be constantly crushed by your big
manly body. This is a very pleasurable departure. She gets to sit comfortably
and be very casually fucked. You should fully expect her to start thrusting
back for maximum accommodation. She will probably try to initiate renewed
contact, but don't give in too quickly. Let her enjoy the deep sensations for
slightly longer than she would normally. Don't let her play with herself,
either -- at least, not the first time you try this. Then throw her on the bed
or the floor and crush her with your big manly body. It will actually be
appreciated.
When you think
about it, doggie-style is a fairly ludicrous way to have sex. And the term
"doggie-style" certainly hasn't helped the erotic charge of mounting
from behind. But many women are fond of doggie-style action, so let's make it
more sophisticated.
How
to do it: If you're still sleeping on a mattress on the floor, then this
ride isn't for you. A couch might work, but let's assume everyone's naked at
the end of a real bed. She faces the headboard, and gets up on the back edge of
the mattress on her hands and knees. The woman then puts her arms back toward
the man, whose feet are planted on the floor -- this has her on her knees with
her face resting on the mattress. Pull her back as you get behind her. You want
her knees on the edge of the mattress -- that's why you should always buy a
firm one.
She doesn't
have to worry about falling, because you're standing behind her with a firm
grip. She's reaching back to your wrists for balance, as you tuck her feet
around your elbows for additional security. For added stability, go ahead and
insert your penis into her vagina. Now you're holding her still while you begin
thrusting your hips in what's clearly not the doggie-style.
Degree
of difficulty: She has to do some maneuvering, so it is important to hold her
firmly. Fortunately, this will also help with your balance. She'll consider
that firm hold to be sexy, too.
Is
it good for you? Every guy should be comfortable with having effortless
sex from a standing position. If you can't reach orgasm this way, then you're
going to be left by the wayside of great sex. Start practicing now.
Is
it good for her? Unless she's got unusually long legs, this should be a
pretty simple way for her to feel all kinky and wild. It also has a nicely
submissive feel that many women enjoy. Again, it helps if you keep a strong
grip, so she can relax.
This position
takes missionary maneuvering and adds a few manual adjustments.
How
to do it: Begin with sex in the missionary position. The man repositions
so that he's kneeling. The gal pulls back her legs and brings them over her
lover's shoulders.
This is a
position you've probably stumbled on yourself. It's time to improve it. Her
feet remain at the man's shoulders. Her knees are then brought together, which
should naturally lead to her thighs also joining. The guy can keep those knees
together by embracing the girl's lower legs right below the knee. His thighs
should be firmly pressed against her ass, but that's not an obstacle to
stroking.
Degree
of difficulty: Any tough positioning is done by the woman, but most should
find this fairly comfortable.
Is it
good for you? The whole idea is to join her thighs to create more friction
during intercourse. This is a very intimate position, but most guys should be
able to manage some major stroking action. Holding her legs will give you
decent balance, and the view is also very nice. There's no real reason not to
take this one to climax.
Is
it good for her? Assuming her legs are fairly supple, this should be
pleasant. It allows her the sensation of having her legs fully spread, without
any of the accompanying straining. She also feels nicely exposed for your
visual enjoyment. Feel free to comment -- women like that.
This position
can be romantic or kinky, depending on the mood.
How
to do it: Pile up pillows against the headboard of the bed, lean back on
your arms and pull up your legs. The woman slides down your legs facing you to
achieve penetration. She should be relaxing with all her weight against your
legs, while her own legs should be straddling your hips, and you're face-to-face
in a reclined position.
Degree
of difficulty: Nobody's having to work too hard. You're relaxing on your back,
and she's doing the same. Don't be tempted to start throwing in some hard
labor, though. The entire appeal of this position is in the languid, short
movements. Any serious thrusting means that you're doing it wrong.
Is
it good for you? It's certainly easy, and her front is entirely exposed,
meaning that your hands have room to roam. That doesn't mean you should try
leaning forward. The whole idea is that this position requires a series of
short, shallow thrustings. Don't be afraid to take this pose to climax.
Is
it good for her? Despite the distance between your bodies, most women
consider this a very intimate position. They also like the commitment to a
lasting period of penetration. She is free to shift around if she gets
uncomfortable, and it's a good idea to keep a few extra pillows within her
reach.
This position
requires some honest communication. The pose allows you to maintain eye
contact, which helps to keep the situation intimate.
How
to do it: Start off with the standard woman-on-top position. She brings
up her feet, and arranges herself in a sitting position on your cock. Then, she
turns to bring both of her legs over to the same side of your body. She's now
riding your little pony in the classic sidesaddle position.
Degree
of difficulty: The guy doesn't really have to do any work. The lady should
have it pretty easy, too. Holding her legs tightly together is a slight effort,
but she'll discover it's a lot easier when she's nude. It's your job to give
her something solid to press against.
Is
it good for you? There's a uniquely tight grip on the penis, and all you
really have to do is lie there. That's just about as ideal as a sex position
gets.
Is
it good for her? Penetration is deep, although any variance of the
strokes will be left up to her. Once she gets the hang of controlling her
movements, this should be a lot of fun. Plus, there's no weight on her. Most
women find themselves enjoying freedom in their movements. She'll likely end up
maintaining this position for a very long time -- and since she controls the
stroking, she can make sure that you stay along for the ride.
It's time to
pull out an old reliable position that always leaves the gal feeling warm and
loved.
How
to do it: You sit straight up at the side of the bed, sofa or maybe an
armless chair. Your penis should also be sitting straight up, as the woman brings
her legs to either side of your waist. Hold her as she positions herself to be
sitting in your lap, facing you with her legs wrapped around your waist. Make
sure she's pressed right against you, and penetration should be inevitable.
You can hold
still while she continues to move against you. Or you can take her by the ass,
and move her yourself while she holds on closely. There can also be a
surprising amount of room for you to thrust your hips -- although that might
interfere with the romantic atmosphere.
Degree
of difficulty: There are no real challenges here. Just remember that there are
a few tall gals out there who need sweet romantic moments, too. Most of them
will have to spread their legs out to either side of you, instead of wrapping
their legs around you. That's just as romantic. In fact, women of regular
height might also want to give that a try.
Is
it good for you? It's great. She's close to you, she smells good, your
penis is inserted into her vagina. What's not to like? But here's how the thing
can really start working for a guy. You've got her feeling both very secure and
very sexual. This is always a great position to start talking about sex. It's
intimate, and you can maintain some action without gasping for breath. This
position creates an ideal situation to get a woman talking about what she likes
-- and, hoo ha, what dirty deeds she's done in the past.
Is
it good for her? It makes her feel all loved. Penetration is also deep,
and she has a lot of room to position herself to be stroked in all the right
places. Eventually, this should get her excited enough to welcome your clever
additional moves -- beginning with that aforementioned conversation.
When having sex
standing up, sometimes it's fun to act like you aren't about to get caught
humping away in the dark corner of a nightclub. And for those special times,
here's a fun way to do it vertically.
How
to do it: She's naked and facing a wall. Her legs are apart, and her
knees are slightly bent. She doesn't put her hands against the wall. Instead,
she folds her arms and holds them shoulder-high.
This should
allow her some pleasant room to bounce her upper body against the wall. Let her
practice to be sure she's steady. Then it's time to help her bounce. Mount her
from behind with strong, steady upward strokes. Your gyrations should get her
in a very nice rhythm, supplemented by the springboard of her elbows.
Degree
of difficulty: It depends on the floor. If there's carpeting, you're going to
do just fine. If it's a polished wood floor, go put on some slippers.
Is
it good for you? There's a lot of great penetration. Your body also has
lots of room to move, and that strong rhythm should compensate for having to
stand. You might surprise yourself by maintaining the pose right up to the
point of orgasm.
Is
it good for her? She's getting great penetration, and her body is exposed
to the air. Those are often two of a gal's favorite things. If she makes
serious use of that rocking motion, then she should be willing to ride this for
at least one serious climax.
There's nothing
more fun than a little hard work. At least that's the line of bullshit our
fathers gave us while trying to con us into putting new aluminum siding on the
house. Now it's time to test that theory in bed with a position that's more
than a little trouble, but well worth the effort.
How
to do it: This one should be a natural for a lot of guys, because we're
starting like you often watch television. Put your ass on the end of the bed,
and stretch your legs straight out. Sit up straight for the moment, as the
lovely woman straddles your lap and achieves penetration.
This is a
perfectly fine sitting sex position. The trick now is to lean back. Have her
hold you firmly at your wrists, while you take firm hold of her forearms.
She'll be able to lean much further back than from a more traditional sitting
position. Make sure she takes advantage of being able to balance her ass on
your thighs. Pull back for as much tension as possible, and make sure that
everyone's secure. Now it's your job to start moving your hips as energetically
as possible.
Degree
of difficulty: The setup can take a while, but the actual position is easy.
There's probably some scientific explanation about opposing forces, but you'll
understand if we don't bore you with the details.
Is
it good for you? Don't be expecting to ride this one into climax, but
it's a sexy segue to more practical positions. Again, get her ass down low to
your thighs. This makes things easier for both you and her. Those nice short
strokes will leave your body comfortably exposed.
Is
it good for her? She'll be just as happy with her exposed body and those
nice short strokes. That said, she'll be even happier if she can just lean back
while you frantically pump your hips.
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