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| "Everyone tired to help but all I really wanted was some time alone ....but they wouldn't leave me by myself to just .....what ever I needed to do .....There was some crazy things I wanted to do (burn her carseat I was so mad she didn't use it on her last trip) get rid of all her things that hurt to much to see....which now I'm glad I didn't do any of these things....I just took her things out of the living room after her 1 birthday.....I was waiting for her in a way to come back to me at 8:50 ....it came and went and she is still not here...and I know she will never be able to in the way I want her to be here...in my arms and in my heart....I was having wars in my head with what I wanted to say and what I would say......Like when someone would ask me is there anything I can do for you please let me know .....inside I would be screaming can you bring back Georgia ....but I would answer thank you if I need anything I will let you know...The only thing I needed was her....I don't know if this help any but what I'm trying to say be careful what you say to someone in grief what you say may be the "right thing to say to many" but not to all ....." Rhoda Fowlar Georgia Ann Cook Fowlar Born June 15, 2000 Got her Wings January 23, 2001 |
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| The best thing that anyone did for me, was to just be there. If it wasn't for my family and close friends I don't know how I would've got through it all. The worst thing is when people avoid you so they don't have to talk about it. It hurts to talk, but it is better than them walking the other way. Julie Jordan's Mummy Jordan Leigh Glover Born - 01/22/98 Angel Day - 09/22/98 |
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| "The most helpful thing was my friend (a guy actually) gave me the Sids Survival Guide...I swear I ate that book right up...I needed it so much...I have been very lucky with nothing too bad being said or done...my parents also paid for Joeys funeral, knowing my husband and I just sunk our money into a new house and did not have insurance..." Marta Joseph Christian McGraw 9-29-00 thru 01-21-01 |
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