I
got an e-mail from a Dutch CITA and Boyzone fan with a
special surprise...
A transcript of the BRAVO interview. Thank you
soooo much
for typing (and TRANSLATING) it! Since
you didn't sign
your name,
I'll just say THANKS a billion, dear "dedicated Boyzone/
CITA fan from
Holland!"
So, here it
is:
"After their
story was told in "The Sun" a wave of sympathy happened
to Eloy
de Jong and Stephen
Gately; Elton John sent flowers, George Michael called
them and many
Stars like Bastiaan Ragas, the Spice Girls
and the Backstreet
Boys congratulated
them for being so honest!
For the first
time after their spectacular coming-out Eloy and Stephen
talk together
about homosexuality, girls, their parents - and their deep feelings for
each other...
BRAVO:
On Wednesday, 16th June you came out really unexpectedly.
Why at this time?
STEVE:
A friend from the news service warned us that somebody
wanted to sell our story
to a newspaper. So we decided to
do it first.
ELOY:
We didn't want the story to be told by someone else. We
talked about it for a
long time because it has been the most
important decision of
our lives! The evening before, we
sat in Italy - where I was on tour with
Boyzone - in front of
the TV and watched the news. We were very nervous
but we
knew we had to take the risk. And we wanted to stop lying
because Steve and me, we love each other and we are sure
that we're gonna stay
together!
BRAVO: Why
did you keep your homosexuality a secret for years
and cheated your fans?
STEVE:
Well, I confess it was very hard for us. But if you are young
and you want to get famous
with a band you don't just say:
"Hi, by the way, I'm gay!"
We were afraid of revealing our
secret to the public.
ELOY:
Now that we know that for our fans the most important thing
is our music and our personality
it's a great ease for us.
BRAVO: How
long have you been a couple now?
ELOY:
For eight months. I presented the pop show "Popcorn live" last
October in Cologne, where Stephen sang together with
Boyzone. We had met four
years before at a party in London
and had become good friends and called
each other from time
to time. But on this evening we realised our deep
feelings for
each other...
STEVE: We know
now that it is the big, great love and we don't
want to be without the
other one for a day! Eloy and me
have many things in common: We
are both born in the sign
of the zodiac pisces, we are fans of Walt Disney,
love music
from Mariah Carey - and we go through thick and thin
together!
BRAVO: Eloy,
your father who died three years ago was very
conservative. How did you tell him and the rest of your
family that you are gay?
ELOY:
I was 17 when I went to my sister Lucienne to tell her the
truth. On the same evening
I went to my mum and said:
"I have to talk to you. What do
you think, do you think I love
girls or boys?" and she said: "I think you
love boys." She was
great and really understood and helped me. But it took
one
year until she told it to my father. He was beside himself with
rage and didn't want to have anything do to with me anymore
from that moment on. One
year he didn't talk a word to me.
He despised me and made me feel that everything I touched
was dirty then. These have
been the most awful years
in my
life!
BRAVO: Your
father was very ill for months before he died.
Facing the death did he
finally forgive you?
ELOY:
I have no idea. The relationship between my father and me
has never been very good - unfortunately. When I got famous
with "Caught in the act" he said he would accept my feelings,
but he never really did. He said to me again and again: "The
most beautiful girls are crazy for you. I don't unerstand why
you don't have sex with them." Today I really wished he could
see how happy I am with Stephen!
BRAVO: Did
you ever have sex with a girl?
ELOY:
Yes, one time. But I still knew I was gay.
STEVE:
So did I. I was dating girls at first but my feelings for boys
were stronger.
BRAVO:
Is it possible that you could love a girl again one day?
STEVE:
No. There's no doubt about it because we have found our big
love and want to spend our whole lives together. Forever!
ELOY:
Right. Nothing can come between us!
BRAVO:
Have your families already met?
ELOY:
Yes, some months ago. Steve has spent chrismas with us
in Holland. For my mother
he is like a second son. When she
saw him for the first time she
knew he is the man who makes
me happy!
STEVE:
Eloy's family came to visit me in my new house near Dublin
on Easter.
BRAVO:
Where are you going to live - in Ireland or in Holland?
STEVE:
We don't know yet. But what we know for sure is that we're
going to have one household - like every other couple does.
Eloy likes to cook, I prefer cleaning (Steve laughs)
BRAVO:
Ireland is a catholic country where the religion is very
important. Are you afraid of being mobbed in the public?
STEVE:
No, because the reactions of the people have all been very
positive. I am a catholic myself and I'm sure we're going to be
respected as long as we respect other people.
BRAVO:
Are you also going to work together?
ELOY:
Of course we're going to help each other with our solo-
projects but we won't sing in a duet. I was on tour with
Boyzone the whole time, stood in front of the stage every
evening and was very proud of Steve! He dedicated the
song "Where did you go" to me. At the moment I am looking
for a record-contract and a TV-Show which I can present.
I really miss my fans
a lot, but it is a great feeling to know
that they're going to stand by
me!!!"
This is
the letter from Eloy:
Dear fans,
I realize that
it has been a while since I wrote you a few words.
A lot has
happened since so I didn't have much time.
I'm sure you
all heard about my relationship with Stephen Gately from Boyzone.
We are very happy and enjoying the time
we can spend together and with our families.
Thanks for all the good wishes and the support for myself and Stephen.
Reading your nice
letters really touched us.
I have some
appealing offers but I am still negotiating. As
soon as
anything works
out you are the first to know.
We bought a
little dog as well. It's a male of the Shih Tzu species.
His name is
JOEY. It's very small
and very cute. We have a lot of
fun with it
and it really loves playing
in the garden. We
bought an
aluminum motorboat
so we can out on the water to relax.
When I have
more news, for example if a deal works out all right I will
tell
you in a new letter or you can listen
to it on my
hotline 0190-782025
I wish you
all the best.
I hope to
see you soon.
Lots of LOVE
Eloy &
Stephen