safety in BDSM play


the 4th part of my soapboxes

Often time Y/you hear horror stories about P/people meeting P/people online and it ending up badly... i bet Y/you also have thought "this can never happen to me, i am too careful, the P/people i meet are A/all safe", right? i thought that too... i have been in this lifestyle long enough that i was confidant that i was smart enough and careful enough to never put myself in a dangerous situation like that...... I WAS WRONG!

i cannot stress to Y/you enough that Y/you can never be too careful... that its not gonna make Y/ypu look paranoid to take these precautions to keep Y/yourself safe and alive.... yes alive! i am not ever exaggerating here!

i cannot emphasize enough to Y/you how crutial it is that Y/you know and trust the O/one Y/you are with, so very much can go wrong, there is no shame in taking things slow and being sure! Trust is something that is imparative to this lifestyle, communication and honesty go hand in hand with it..... take a friend with Y/you, have S/someone call to make sure Y/you are okay and safe... anything that will lesson or eliminate the danger of being beaten, raped, killed, mutilated, or anything else awful that could and truly does happen!

i was one that thought "this cant happen to me, i am too careful, those P/people that happens to are just fools and dont take precautions".... i was so wrong and before i knew it, i was tied to a doorframe being beaten beyond belief with a metal spatula, gagged when i screamed my safeword, fortunately i got out with just some bruises and broken skin, it could have been much much worse, i couldnt have gotten out! DONT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU!!!!!! Please, i beg Y/you, be safe, play safe, play smart!



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