F.A.Q.

So who exactly are you?
Well, that's the point of this F.A.Q. - to get you more acquainted with who I am. I'm not really good at just talking about myself. I'd rather answer questions. Hence this section. Read through the questions and answers, and hopefully you can gain a better understanding of who I am. If not, E-mail me at aftertheglow@aol.com.

Where do you go to school and what are you studying?
California State University, of Long Beach, and I am working on a degree in business administration.

How long have you been dressing?
I started dressing a little when I was 13-years-old, but I didn't really take it seriously until I was 16.

How did you start dressing?
In one word, curiosity. When I was 13-years-old, out of no where, I just got an urge. I'm not sure where it came from, or why I acted upon it, but I did. I tried on one of my sisters pre-worn thongs that missed the laundry basket.

Little did I know that, that would change my life forever. It kind of just went from there. Slowly trying on more things of hers. Eventually I got my own clothes, make-up, etc...and well, the rest is history. Sometimes I wonder if things would have been different if I hadn't tried on her thong. Would I have gotten the urge again? Or would I be a different person today? Who knows.

Do you want to be a girl?
Yes, very much so, but the whole idea of surgery is still very scary to me. I want to get on hormones and work on my voice, but that will all have to wait until I get out on my own.

What are your best features?
My slim feminine body, tight little butt, and soft smooth legs, but I also get a lot of compliments on my eyes, and I've been told I have beautiful lips, an angelic smile, and very lovely feet.

How often do you dress up?
Not as much as I would like to. I would love to be able to dress full-time, but I am currently restricted to only dressing whenever I am lucky enough to be home alone, late at night in my bedroom, or when I go out in public.

How often do you go out dressed?
2-3 times a week. Usually to the video store, mall, and beach, or when I am meeting someone offline.

How do you buy your clothes?
My favorite and safest place to shop is right up the street from where I live. It's kind of like an indoor swap-meet owned by Asians, and it's perfect for me. They have everything from make-up to thongs, and it's never crowded in there.

Where do you stash your clothes?
I have a huge dresser in my room, and I pullout the bottom drawer and put my clothes in/back there. There's plenty of space. Also, thankfully our family has a washer and dryer, so there's no need to make trips to the Laundromat.

What do you use for breasts?
I used to use Victoria's Secret breast enhancers. Now I've "graduated" to actual false breasts.

Is that your real hair?
I wish! I'm wearing a wig in all of my pictures.

Are you out?
No, not yet.

If you're still in the closet, why do you have a website?
I'm not really that paranoid about the whole Internet thing. If people find out my secret identity by stumbling upon my website, I guess it's one less person I have to tell. I'd rather they didn't find out that way, but if it happens, it happens.

Does your family know that you dress?
Directly, no. I haven't worked up that much courage yet, but I'm sure at least my mom has some sort of idea. You can't go 5 years at home without leaving some sort of hint (or two, or ten).

How would they react?
I think for the most part they would take it well. Though, I really don't know about my dad -- there have been some instances in the past where he's displayed not-so-welcomed views towards gays and lesbians. I figure that since I fit into that same group, that he wouldn't really take it to well. Hopefully I'm wrong. As for the rest of my family, I think they would be okay with it.

Do you like boys?
I prefer men. Much older men as a matter of fact. I feel so comfortable with them, and they tend to appreciate and admire "special" young girls like myself more so than younger guys. Plus, what 45-year-old man would turndown a piece of fresh teen ass? Ha-ha.

Do you like girls?
Yep! I love them. So much that I want to be one, but I am not interested in them sexually though.

Will you send me a naked picture?
No, go away!

What's your favorite position?
I like it deep and hard so doggy-style is the best position for me. Also, being bent over something like a table, kitchen counter, hood of a car and taking it from the back, and having my hair pulled and ass slapped at the same time.

Do you like talking on the phone with guys you meet online?
Yes, I love it! And phone-sex can be hot too. My voice isn't passably yet, but that's not saying it's deep and husky sounding either. Unfortunately, it's kind of hard to get privacy to talk on the phone during the day (unless I am home alone), but usually late at night like around 11:00pm PST is a great time to talk.

How has this whole Internet thing affected you?
I suppose it's boosted my ego a little bit. Also, it has given me a lot of ideas about the future, and about where I'm going. Finding so many friends online has helped me see certain things I had never thought about before, and it's provided me with endless amounts of advice (some good, some bad). Plus, it's given me a reason to take a whole lot of pictures.

What do you want from this website?
Mostly this website gives me: (a) something to do in my spare time, (b) a reason to take pictures, and (c) an opportunity to meet people.

You look like the girl next-door, are you?
It depends on where you live, ha-ha.

Are you sure you aren't a real girl?
I like this question, just because it's such a great compliment. No, I'm not, but thanks for asking.