My Story

Where do I start? Well I met my bf in highschool. We have been together for 4 years. We have thought about having kids but we never thought about how soon. We have had problems through out our relationship. Mainly because of me. Yeah, I take the blame. After everything I did, my bf still wanted to be with me. I also knew that I loved him and wanted to be with him. After like the 3rd time of us breaking up (my fault) we said we was going to call it quits. We both knew that we were not going to be able to just do that because we still had feelings. No matter how hard we tried to be with other people we would still be there for eachother. I started having my friends he started having his friends. We both tried to act like it didn't bother us. I know it bothered me. One of my bf female friends that he was seeing was one of my enemies. She dont like me and I dont like her. She didn't like since hs. She was always telling my bf something about me. She was so jealous. She was mad cause I took her man, her god sisters man, and her friend man. Its not my fault that I was born with these looks.LOL. Well anyway me knowing that he talked to her really caused conflict. I was going out with dudes and he was going out with her. He didn't want to get rid of his friendship with her. So I just said fuck it and left his ass alone for good. After a couple of days we didnt talk or see each other which is rare for us, even on bad days we still saw each other. So one day I guess he missed me and he came over looking good. I was like damn. But I was about to go to the mall with my best friend so I didn't sweat him. He look so sad. (My baby). So after we came from the mall he was outside waiting for me I acted like I didnt see him or wanted to talk to him. So another week went by without us seeing each other or talking. So on Monday 5/21/01 he called and was like he wanted to talk. I am usually the one who says we need to talk. I said ok meet me at my house when I get off from work. He did we talked and said that we love each other and want to be together. So I told him he have to let all his friends go and I will let mine go. So on 5/22/01 he called the lil bitch and told her he didn't want to be with her and that he wanted to be with me. So one thing lead to another and we ended up having sex. The dr. said that is the night that I got pregnant. We have been back together ever since. That is the reason why my site is called a A True Blessing................ A Blessing in Disguise.


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