THE ENNEAGRAM

The Enneagram is about underlying motivations. It is a tool for self-knowledge. The 9 Enneagram personality types are 9 compulsive defense mechanisms. The problem is that most of us rely on one or two major strategies, while neglecting the rest. Your Enneagram type is both a strength, because they become "experts" in the strategy of that type, and a weakness, because they become trapped by it.
Understanding your enneagram personality type can literally change your life-not only in your relationships with yourself and others, but in the way you cope with all issues and situations.


The 9 types are:

No. 1. The Perfectionist. Motivated by the need to live life the right way, improve yourself and others, and avoid anger.

No. 2. The Helper. Motivated by the need to be loved and appreciated, to express your positive feelings toward others, and to avoid being seen as needy.

No. 3. The Achiever. Motivated by the need to be productive, to achieve success, and to avoid failure.

No. 4. The Romantic. Motivated by the need to understand your feelings and to be understood, to search for the meaning of life, and to avoid being ordinary.

No. 5. The Observer. Motivated by the need to know everything and understand the universe, to be self-suff~cient and left alone, and to avoid not having the answer or looking foolish.

No. 6. The Questioner. Motivated by the need to receive approval, to feel taken care of, and to avoid being seen as rebellious (or the counter-phobic 6 motivated by the need to rebel against all of the former).

No. 7. The Adventurer. Motivated by the need to be happy and plan fun things, to contribute to the world, and to avoid suffering and pain.

No. 8. The Asserter. Motivated by the need to be self-reliant and strong, to make an impact on the world, and to avoid being weak.

No. 9. The Peacemaker. Motivated by the need to keep the peace, merge with others, and to avoid conflict.

I would like you to start on this page. This site explains bacground for the enneagram, and it also has comparisons between types, that I find very useful.

9 types.

Test to find your type.

Energy and the enneagram

History of the enneagram.

Enneagram monthly

Enneagram in parenting.

This page can easily give you an introduction to what the Ennagram is all about.




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