Quote: Originally Posted by: horuhe00

Then I guess, according to you, I'm going to Hell.

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No. According to me your relation with God will be skin deep and quite boring. After all it is permisable yet not perfect will. So I guess your relation with God isn't going to be on the best terms. If you want to serve a 'faraway' God go ahead be my guest. In my opinion the God I SERVE: Is my friend, my father, my boyfriend, my brother, my everything and I wish to indulge ever more in a more deeper relationship with him.

No. According to the Lord your lack of comprehension and desire to seek of consultation in order to find a loophole to his decrees will end up in you losing the one you love. Seriously if you want to risk it go ahead. Furthermore the thesis I built was for you and not anyone else, yet you wish to remain blind to some facts AND not even investigate yourself. I have yet to here a soun proven argument from you. Even your biblical verses lack validity as Solomon used a choice of metaphors and sticks with them. But then again we could also investigate how oral sex is depicted metaphorically and in poetry language.

No. According to your girlfriend if she doesn't like it you best find someone else in your life who shares your 'permisable will' view. As it stands the act to her is nauseating and wrong. Do you then intend to force her into something she is not obviously going to change her mind about?

I wanted to try to help you not make the same mistakes I did but you insist in doing them, it costed me and its still costing me a lot. I hope then you are aware of the costs: for losing both on a friendship with God and your loved one is so high a price to pay for something that isn't even as pleasurable as true penis-vaginal sex under the values of God's love and ones love to each other. Are you then willing to pay the cost?

On another note when I read your first post I reiterate again how shocked and appaled I am that you put your girlfriend there. I feel also shocked you could not have taken this subject in a diffrent matter and posted it in a more protective way of your girlfriend. I say what you did is wrong. I am sure your girlfriend who has most possibly read this post believes the same and would not be surprised if she is angered and disgusted by it. But hey that is your choice.

Take care and have a nice day. MAy God bless you and may you understand this thing before they are too late.