Being a Master or a slave is not an easy task, it carries many responsibilities with it; not to mention stress of daily living. It is easy enough to say one does this or that on a screen without real physical or emotional consequences. But this life is not a screen, and there are very real issues to deal with. These are just a few questions that can help focus what you need and want.

~ What are your hopes, desires, goals and expectations for the relationship?
~ What kind of training and experience do you have?
~ What skills do you have to offer?
~ What kind of training, discipline, punishment, chores, and responsibility do you wish to give your slave?
~ What is your philosophy (at least basic) about Gor or BDSM and your relationship, and how do you plan to go about it?
~ How public and private do you wish to be ?
~ How public and private can your slave be ?
~ Do you wish your slave to continue to work ? If not how will you support the slave?
~ How much of your lifestyle do you wish your children and your family to know about?
~ Are you or your slave married ? How much does the spouse know and how comfortable are they with it? Does it matter to you ?
~ Will you allow your slave to serve others sexually? What safety precautions will be used?
~ Do you wish or are only able to express your desires online? If so, does the slave know that nothing irl will happen ?
~ How much time online and or offline will you be able to give to your slave?
~ How much of your slaves time do you wish to take? How much time can she offer ?