Subject: [love] Fw: [if96] Some Good Comments On Love
Date: Tue, 27 Jul 1999 14:13:11 +0700
From: "Agustinus T Pambudi" <agustinustp@asia.com
Hallo Friends, saya dapet karangan bagus buat all of you
i hope you haven't ever read this yet
so you can read it and find new lessons from it
it's about the way to love and 2b-love
regards,
new Mailing-list member
- BUDI -
SOME GOOD COMMENTS ON LOVE
If you find yourself in love with someone
who does not love you, be gentle with yourself.
There is nothing wrong with you.
Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.
If you find someone else in love with you
and you don't love him, feel honored that love came and
called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return.
Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.
How you deal with love is how you deal with you,
and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys,
even if our lives and ways are different.
If you fall in love with another,
and he falls in love with you,
and then love chooses to leave, do not try to
reclaim it or to assess blame, Let it go.
There is a reason and there is a meaning.
You will know in time.
Remember that you don't choose love.
Love chooses you.
All you can really do is accept it for all its
mystery when it comes into your life.
Feel the way it fills you to overflowing,
then reach out and give it away.
Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.
Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit.
Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.
There is where many lovers go wrong.
Having been so long without love, they
understand love only as a need.
They see their hearts as empty places
that will be filled by love,
and they begin to look at love as something
that flows to them rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to
overflowing, but as their love cools,
they revert to seeing their love as need.
They cease to be someone who generates love
and instead become someone who seeks love.
They forget that the secret of love is that it is a Gift,
and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.
Remember this, and keep it to your heart.
Love has its own time, its own seasons, and
its own reason for coming and going.
You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying.
You can only embrace it when it arrives and
give it away when it comes to you.
But if it chooses to leave from your heart
or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do
and there is nothing you should do.
Love always has been and always will be a mystery.
Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.
IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN, IT WILL COME AGAIN.
The Heart has its reasons that the mind knows nothing of ............
by Robert Herrick
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Subject: [love] I love you (fwd)
Date: Wed, 28 Jul 1999 14:15:17 +0700
From: "Agustinus T Pambudi" <agustinustp@asia.com
"Always Say I Love You"
Brittney loved basketball
Friends and parties too
And when it came to painting
That's all she wanted to do
She painted everything she saw
Birds, flowers, the sky
Some days she sat at her window
And painted everything that passed her by
But lately she'd been feeling woozy
Her muscles ached a lot
And her parents got kind of worried
So they took her to the doc
The doctor took a couple of tests
To see if everything was okay
Then the nurse came out with a look of sadness
And this is what she had to say;
"I'm sorry but you've got leukemia,"
"You've got about 3 months more."
Then Brittney got up and ran out of the room
And slammed the office door
She ran down the street screaming
And cried her eyes out dry
And stayed up all night
Wondering what it's like to die
Her parents held her tightly
And said, "We love you,"
"We'll make your last few months the greatest,"
"We'll do anything for you."
So Brittney and her parents moved to Florida
To live by the sea
Because Brittney loved the ocean
And when she dies, that's where she wanted to be
She spent her days painting
And horseback riding in by the bay
But one day she met this guy
And his name was Jay
They collected seashells together
And talked about all kinds of things
And then one day while walking
He handed her a ring
It said, "I love you,"
Which brought tears to Brittney's eyes
And when he put it on her finger
She began to cry
"I've got leukemia, and about a month more."
He said," No matter what, I love you,"
"And no matter what, you are the one I adore."
So they spent everyday together
And swam in the Atlantic all day
But Brittney was getting weaker
And it was hard for her stay awake
So one day Brittney painted her picture
And gave it to Jay
She said, "I want you to remember me,"
"Even when I leave this place."
But one day while they were walking
And searching for seashells in the sand
Brittney collapsed and started to lose her breath
And said to Jay, "Please hold my hand."
"I love you more then anyone,"
"You are my only true love,"
"But now my time is up,"
"And I'll watch over you from above,"
Then Brittney's body was lifeless
As she lay in Jay's arms
And he sat there all day
And kept her safe from harm
I hope this teaches you a lesson.
To tell someone you love them whenever you can.
Because maybe they'll be gone tomorrow.
And you wont be there to hold their hand.
Because love is everything to everybody.
Without it, the world would be dead.
So always tell someone you love them.
A parent, a lover, a friend.
Send this to everyone you know,
it makes a big difference even though you don't
think so...
Everyone deserves an "I love you."
Because there may be
No one for that person to say it back to.
If you don't send it, then you have no heart
"Life is for love and 2b-loved"
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Subject: [love] cinta menurut mereka (fwd)
Date: Wed, 28 Jul 1999 12:40:35 +0700
From: "Agustinus T Pambudi" <agustinustp@asia.com
CINTA
@Return of Condor Heroes Apa itu cinta, orang rela mati karena cinta.
@Ahli Matematika Himpunan cinta dalam bilangan bulat positif yaitu
{saling pengertian, saling percaya, kasih sayang, setia, dan suka
sama suka}.
Sedangkan dalam bilangan bulat negatif terdiri dari {cemburu,
dendam, egois, ingkar janji, lari dari kenyataan, kurang pengertian,
dan berselingkuh}.
@Ahli Tata Buku Cinta timbul antara anggaran dan perkiraan akal
yang normal, oleh karena itu penerimaan cinta tidak semudah
membuat daftar tahunan.
@Ilmuwan Fisika Cinta adalah pantulan mata yang dibiaskan
kedalam hati.
Rumusnya yaitu....... (silahkan pikir sendiri)
@Ahli Geografi Angka kelahiran disebabkan oleh cinta sejati.
Angka kematian sama dengan cinta paksaan, jadi cinta paksa
sama dengan pembunuhan.
@Dosen Pancasila Sesama manusia harus saling mencintai.
Oleh karena itu hidup tanpa cinta berarti dunia dalam berita.
@Pakar Ekonomi Salah satu penyebab keretakan dalam
bercinta adalah faktor ekonomi.
Oleh sebab itu resesi ekonomi merupakan penghambat cintanya
seseorang Mata duitan.
@Dosen Bahasa Indonesia Jika hari biasa cinta merupakan kata
benda. Jika malam minggu cinta merupakan kata kerja.
@Dosen Elektronika Rangkaian komponen yang dapat
menimbulkan rasa cinta yaitu pandangan pertama, perkenalan,
jumpa pertama, lirikan dan saling bertemu.
@Guru Kesehatan Kebahagiaan dalam menjalin cinta akan
menimbulkan jasmani dan rohani yang sehat, dan kegagalan
dalam bercinta akan menimbulkan frustasi.
@Guru Biologi Cinta merupakan kebutuhan yang amat penting
dalam perkembangan makhluk hidup, bila tidak ada cinta maka
makhluk hidup akan punah.
@Tukang Kebun Cinta bagaikan bunga yang sedang dipupuk,
bila bunga itu layu, maka sama artinya dengan patah hati.
@Tukang Jaga Wartel Orang yang sedang jatuh cinta itu sangat
menguntungkan, karena memakai banyak pulsa. Apalagi kalau
dipakai buat interlokal.
@Menurut Visual Fox Pro Cinta itu bisa melalui banyak cara.
Ada yang dibikin sendiri, ada juga yang memakai report builder
(itu kalau cinta kilat) dan wizard (baca : mak comblang)
@Tukang Cat Cinta yang serasi adalah bagaikan campuran
cat yang cukup antara adonan catnya dengan thinner.
@Tukang Listrik Cinta yang sedang membara itu sangat merugikan,
karena mereka yang sedang jatuh cinta itu sukanya pojokan dan
gelap-gelapan.
@Dukun Cinta yang ditolak adalah ladang rejeki, karena bukankah
ada pepatah yang mengatakan "Cinta ditolak dukun bertindak"
@Maniak Game Cinta adalah game yang paling menjengkelkan,
karena kalau lagi lancar selangit rasanya, kalau lagi bertengkar atau
putus bagaikan game tanpa cheating.
