This is Pandora, the newest addition to our family.
I don't know what her real name is as she was abandoned in the basement of an apartment building when her owner moved and felt she was disposable. They judged her to be about 3 to 4 years old so I made her fourth birthday May 25, 2001, the day I picked her up. I'm actually beginning to think I should have made her at least 5 from the way she acts.
I won a special award from Cats Kittys Gatos for adopting an older kitty. Thanks so much, Pandora and I love it.
I really met her about three weeks before that and wished I had taken her home that day. I have been looking for another kitty to keep Rufus company for a long time. Naturally being the same color and hair length is a plus to me with my allergies.
But I didn't take her that Saturday. Sunday one of my neighbors called to say the stray cat she had been feeding had kittens living under her house and my thoughts turned to the kittens that I needed to rescue.
That Friday I caught two of them but I couldn't get them into the shelter because they needed socialized. I was also thinking about Pandora hiding in her cage at the shelter. I had decided I wanted to adopt her but I couldn't bring her home while I still had the kittens.
So this began a two week kitten socialization marathon before we made the trade. Don't get me wrong, I love the kittens too and would have probably kept them but I am still trying to catch three more and I can't have that many in the house. And kittens stand a better chance of being placed through the shelter than an adult cat that is highly stressed like she was.
So on Friday, May 25, 2001, with teary eyes I took the kittens to the shelter and brought Pandora home.
I am not good about turning fosters into the shelter and I think Pandora helped me to be able to turn the kittens over to them, but my heart is still broken and I will always remember them with smiles and tears.
Pandora hated all the animals because she was scared. She just growled and hissed at everyone. She is a wee little thing, smaller than Rufus and much smaller than Lucy. She also has a little bit more of a persian face but her hair is only medium length. I'm assuming she didn't live with any other animals before she was abandoned.
It probably wasn't fair to bring her into a household with so many animals but she doesn't seem unhappy so far and I'm thinking that she will work it out with them eventually. So far she seems to like Rufus but he doesn't like her to get real close yet. I'm sure Rufus would have liked to have kept the little girl kitten, Sabrina, as his own as she was extremely friendly but I felt Pandora needed the help more.
Pandora received this present from the gang at Cosette's Lair. Lestat says he is in love. Big hint, Lestat - Pandora can be courted with the aid of many, many pounce treats.
In August, 2001 Lestat courted and won Pardora's heart (without treats too). He asked her to be his Wink Wink and she accepted. Here is a picture of her very catsome boyfriend Lestat. Please visit his webpage and meet his other family members while you are there.
It is with deep sadness that Pandora's beloved Lestat passed away on 2/3/05. He will be deeply missed.
We have sponsored a kitty named Gavin in Memory of Lestat. This is a beautiful way to honor a friend. We hope each day gets a little easier for our dear friends at Cosette's Lair.
Finally got some pictures back that I took the first day Pandora came to live here. She doesn't look very happy in them.
A ribbon tempted her to play though, a good sign, I guess.
And here she is investigating the downstairs bathroom. Right after these were taken Madison scared her and she ran back upstairs to hide.
We did have a slight breakthrough last night after she had been here less than a week. She slept with me last night. She started out above my head, went under the covers and tickled me, then came back out and hogged the pillow causing me to give it up and that's where she stayed most of the night. She still hissed in the morning but I called that a great success anyways and think in time things will only get better.
Pandora and Lucy have been having screaming matches. No hitting ... just screams. I think Lucy is actually afraid of her, which makes me chuckle. I never thought I would feel sorry for Lucy the way she has picked on Rufus, but I do. Pandora doesn't seem to like me to pick up the other cats or give them attention. Maybe she's just growling because she sees them. She has also sniffed Madison's tail when he wasn't looking and didn't run away, so I'm hoping she is settling in.
Tonight I actually caught "the girls" in the middle of one of their battles because I was playing with Lucy. Pandora was on the bed watching and Lucy was on the back of the chair. I creep my fingers up the side of the chair to tug at the tufts of fur on Lucy's feet and she swipes at me making vocal comments while we play. Pandora started screaming and leaped off the bed and into the chair and stood and just screamed at her. I had to put her back on the bed and sit with her. I told her no, that Lucy and I were playing. I can't imagine what she is thinking. So now I know when I hear that screaming, it is just Pandora. Lucy never even opened her mouth. In fact, she seemed frozen. Then I heard it again and went racing upstairs and Pandora was at her food bowl. Apparently Lucy was trying to steal food. So now I've tried to explain that the food bowl will never be empty and she doesn't have to worry. Who knows how long she was in that basement without food. Poor little baby :(
Something new that has happened with Pandora in July. When she came here she was already declawed. Much to my surprise she started into heat. So she had irresponsible people who got her declawed but not spayed, and possibly an unethical vet who would declaw without spaying. She was spayed on July 11, 2001. I felt horrible leaving her there. I was sure she would think I had abandoned her. She's home now but right now she is very quiet and sore and I feel very sad for her. She had already been through enough and really didn't need to go through a surgery too but even though Rufus is neutered it is for her own health to have her spayed and I didn't want to put it off any longer when they said they could do it this week.
Pandora was featured as the Little Miracle by our friends, Holly, Bailey and Avery. Thank you for this lovely keepsake.
I am trying to teach her to share and be kind to her brothers and sisters. That is why Pandora is sponsoring Chester off the Furr-Angel website. She understands the concept of "no one to love her but kind strangers" and she hopes he gets a home very soon.
Pandora has still been having some trouble adjusting to our household. Where I thought the Evil Queen LuciFurr was going to be a problem, it turns out that Pandora has been the aggressor, going after Lucy who is just minding her own business. She is protecting the bedroom as her own, which I have to chuckle about, since Lucy did the same thing. Only Pandora does it in that very LOUD voice. I only hope that soon she comes to realize that no one is going to hurt her or abandon her and she will settle down. She's okay as long as she doesn't see Lucy and I haven't a clue as to why she is so aggressive. I also caught her with a big mouthful of Lucy's hair the other night.
I actually have pictures of all 3 cats together so I don't know why she has suddenly become more possessive of the bedroom.
Can you figure out which cat is which?
Don't feel bad, I can't always tell which is which either!
And here is my most favorite picture of her to date. At least she looks content.
Each day I keep hoping that things will improve but most of the time Lucy stays under the couch and Pandora stays upstairs. I guess I can live with that as long as Pandora isn't trying to kill Lucy. My poor friends have to listen to all my concerns about why Pandora is so aggressive to Lucy and worrying about Lucy's health while she lives under the couch.
One of the funniest things about Pandora is her love for the bed. She gets under the covers most nights and sleeps there. I wonder sometimes how she can even breathe. And I have to make the bed with her on it. I keep moving her around while I try to work. It isn't easy, believe me. But she's very sweet, at least with me.
I have come to the conclusion now that "the girls" will never be friends but things are getting better.
At Christmas 2001 Lucy finally started coming back upstairs and although the girls glare at each other a lot, I'm not finding big wads of hair on the floor any more. I think they actually try to play sometimes but Lucy plays too rough and then I hear hisses and furniture being moved and I have to go stop them.
Since Pandora has been eating better food I'm also noticing her coat is getting full and beautiful and her tail is getting thicker. I thought she was always going to have a skinny rat tail.
Pandora thought it would be nice if she had her own award to honor other families who adopt an older animal. Be sure to check out our AWARDS PAGE and let us know if you would like one. She will check out your website and get back to you. Please write to her at Pandora@furr-angels.zzn.com. She's so impressed she has her own email address.
Since Pandora moved into our house she has been putting on weight and now she is a member of the Fat Is Fun Community like my other two.
Recently Pandora won first place in Thaddy's Vampire Contest.
It's been over two years now since she came into our lives and things are much better now. We have the usual problems but she has adjusted pretty well now and even tolerates the dogs better, I'm happy to say.
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