by Mae (HF001)
I have found that English men are different from us Americans -
and I don't mean the time either! English men are such prudish
people. They are too uptight and not laid back enough! I wonder,
don't you ever want to get loose and feel the juice? This is
American slang, and I love it!
It is as though we speak a different language in so many ways. I learned you have to keep a close tab on your tongue to English people. Watch out what you say - you will offend them so easily! Say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing and English men will stop writing to you just like that! English men are famous for not giving answers for their actions. They are very uncaring cold hearted chaps. I guess we all lie at times, but the English really don't mind shooting you a line of shit. Unlike English people, I like everyone. I haven't seen anyone I don't like!
It is more like English people have stricter morals than us Americans (most of us)! English men seem easily offended by things that don't worry American men. Don't get me wrong - there are plenty of prudish Americans. But I stay away from them. A lesson that I have learned throughout my writing to English men is that I must keep a close tab on my tongue - be very careful what I say. But do not get me wrong - when I am angered badly I will deal with you in a moment! (With which submission hold? -ed)
So are there any English chaps who can prove me wrong?
Mae wanted me to print her article saying what she feels about a couple of unsatisfactory contacts she made. She also says in her letters that she has made two good contacts, who have both invited her over the England, so hopefully she may have a happier view of the country soon.
There are people interested in HEW as a sex alternative and there are others interested in it as an addition to more conventional sex. Obviously the two don't mix, but I think that each should respect the desires of the others and there is no reason why they can't be friends if not life long partners.
Also there are people who like conventional sex with just one partner but will wrestle with several others, but without going any further than wrestling with the additional partners. Here everyone involved, including the sex-partner, have to be very clear as to what is going on and in complete agreement with it. And I mean complete agreement, not having been cajoled or blackmailed into agreement. If you have any doubts, then don't do it! Otherwise eventually there will be misery.
Everyone interested in HEW regardless of how they go about it should respect others whose ideas are slightly different. As a class they are still in a substantial minority compared with the rest of humanity, and no doubt expect the rest of humanity to respect them. Therefore they should help each other and be pleasant to each other even if they do not want to get involved in the particular type of HEW experience sought or offered by a particular individual.
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