ALL NEW SECTIONS FOR ALL OF YOU ILLITERATES THAT CANNOT READ THE DISCLAIMER BELOW AND THOSE WHO HAVE NOTHING ELSE TO DO BUT TRY AND CRITIQUE THE TRUTH (like that's really possible)
BEFORE YOU START TALKIN' JUNK, READ THIS.....
THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A 'NIGGA' AND A 'MAN'. IF YOU CAN READ YOU WILL SEE THAT. IF YOU ARE A MAN, DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT. NIGGA IS NOT USED AS A RACIAL SLUR ON THIS PAGE. IN SOME AREAS OF THE WORLD, THE TERM 'NIGGA' (NOT 'NIGGER') IS USED COLLOQUIALLY, USUALLY IN REFERENCE TO IGNORANT PEOPLE. IT MAY NOT BE RIGHT, BUT THAT'S LIFE. IF THIS OFFENDS YOU, JUST LEAVE!!!
COMING SOON... THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A NIGGA AND A MAN... Scroll down for info on how to get your opinion included on this page
N.A.S. is an organization of women who have come to the
realization that NIGGAS AIN'T SHIT.
Ladies, you know you need to read this if one or more of
the following applies to you:
1.
Your heart has been /is hurting because of a nigga that did you wrong.
2.
You don't understand why when you put out 110%, you NEVER get it back.
3.
You had sex with a nigga you liked ONLY to be talked about, his feelings 'changed' the morning after, or worse.
4.
You really just want to know why niggas do stupid shit all the
time.
BABY, it's time for you to realize that the REASON WHY is......
NIGGAS AIN'T SHIT!!!
N.A.S. was formed in 1997 by a group of women in Detroit, MI. There ARE official chapters, but if there is not one yet in your area, as a sister, you should adopt the philosophy. There should be no problem with anyone else claiming N.A.S. if they are truly down for the cause.
NOW, there are a couple things about N.A.S. that you need to know:
1.
Don't waste any more time trying to find some psychological reasons for why guys do what they do. The reason is that NIGGAS AIN'T SHIT!
2.
You cannot change the fact that niggas are like that. You have to keep your guard up and be smart. As long as you refuse to lower your standards and remain virtuous, they can't get to you.
3.
You can't take no mess off of NOBODY. If you let them pull stupid stuff and get away with it, then you are ALMOST at as much fault as them.
4.
Niggas Lie.
5.
Keep yo' coochie to yourself!! A lot of our problems stem from too much comfortability with sexuality. If he is pressuring you for some booty, let him go! 'Tis better to have never gave it up and be without than to give it up and be without because truthfully, after he gets the pussy, whatever kind of relationship you had is going to take a nose dive ( some of ya'll know what I'm talkin' about; can I get a AMEN?).
6.
Especially at the college level, you KNOW he can't fall too deep for you if you don't have anything to bring to the table. Why would he want a 'wife' with no degree or job? Its true that you aspire to attain one, but you don't have it yet, so you don't have very much to offer yet, so that could be a dampener on your relationships.
Basically, what we belive is that as women of the nineties, we can't afford to tiddlywink around with some old pissy niggas who can't do anything for us. If they can do something for us, cool, but we still don't trust them, and we will always have the upper hand because we KNOW that.....
NIGGAS AIN'T SHIT!
This page is under construction. Questions, comments, and suggestions (suggestions from original members only) can be E-mailed to urbangoddess@hotmail.com If you have sent mail and I haven't responded, its because I haven't been able to check my other posted account regularly. Please be a dear and resend it! :)
Remember that this page is not the fu*king Ramayana or my philosophy on LIFE. It is for entertainment puposes ONLY to all of you rebels without a cause that find time to playa hate. To all my peeps that know what the deal is and how it should be handled, much love.
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Sometimes we as women need
little reminders as to when we are taking our relations with
the opposite sex a little TOO far. For a checklist (you really
SHOULD see this) CLICK HERE
Because of the harsh language used on this page, I might be editing it just a little. The content will be the same, but some words might be *&!@#$'d out. Email me and tell me if you care.
For the upcoming "What is a "MAN" page, I would appreciate your opinions - especially from the men. It is of dire importance that you be serious, because this part of the page is not for entertainment - it will be a checklist of common things that every MAN should posess.