June 2003 Newsletter of Bill and Helen Lovelace
Dear friends,
Greetings from the Ukrainian UMC and
from all of us who are involved in the Street Children ministry here in
Kiev.
Annual Conference 2003
this year was held in Voronezh in Russia, a 12 hour train ride south of
Moscow. This meeting was the
first of the new Southern Russia, Ukraine and Moldova Annual Conference.
As you may remember, in 2002 the Russia Annual Conference voted
to divide into four annual conferences due to the continuing growth of
new churches and the geographic enormity of the old conference stretching
from the Baltic Sea to the Pacific Ocean and spanning 11 time zones.
Our district alone has grown from 3 churches to 15 since 1996!
Our new Annual Conference consists of the Voronezh area in southern
Russia plus Ukraine and Moldova.
Another first was that the Annual Conference was held at the newly
purchased Methodist campgrounds.
The campgrounds are located just outside of Voronezh which is central
to all four Annual Conferences of
our Eurasia Episcopal area.
At Annual Conference
we officially welcomed the addition of four new churches to our district
from the Uzhgorod region. As
mentioned in the last newsletter, these four churches,
located inside Ukraine near the Hungarian border and formerly belonging
to the Hungarian Annual Conference have been in existence since the 1920’s
and were the sole surviving Methodist churches of Ukraine from before WWII.
They have participated in district activities since 1999 and now
have officially joined our conference.
After submitting the paperwork
in October, we received the official registration of the United Methodist
Church of Ukraine. Now,
the denomination is recognized throughout Ukraine and we have the right
to not only open new churches, but humanitarian institutions, a publishing
house and other church related organizations.
The denomination can also issue invitations for citizens of other
countries to come and minister in Ukraine.
At our church in Bila Tserkva,
we held our first Family Summer camp.
Our church ministers to disabled people and we had nine people in
wheelchairs at the camp. For
many, this was their first camp experience.
Though the camp was not built to be accessible to wheelchairs, we
build ramps on the spot and all pitched in to make sure everyone could
participate in the camp activities.
Our church was introduced to a little bit of Americana as we roasted
marshmallows and made S’Mores around a bonfire.
The marshmallows made it all the way to Ukraine (you can’t buy them
in the stores in Ukraine) and combined nicely with Ukrainian chocolate
and the Ukrainian equivalent of graham crackers.
The combination of bible study, swimming, sports, kite flying and
relaxation in the tall pine forest made everyone look forward to next year.
After church this past Sunday,
we visited one of our church family’s home.
Living outside your own culture often helps you appreciate the abundance
we often take for granted in the West.
The Petrov family, one of our most active families, lives in a one-room
apartment. A one-room apartment
has a kitchen, bathroom and one main room.
These apartments were built during Krushchev’s administration in
the early sixties. The Petrovs,
Ivan and Maria have two children, a 12 year old son, Petya and a disabled
7 year old daughter, Lyuda. The
main room of the apartment is only 150 square feet.
The kitchen, perhaps 25 square feet.
When we expressed to Ivan and Maria how tough it must be to live
all together, Maria said, “Oh, this isn’t so bad, Ivan’s brother used to
live here with us!” Ivan said,
“Yeah, we used to joke that in the cemetery you get 2 square meters (20
square feet) per person and we have 3 per person, (30 sq. ft.), so we’re
lucky!” Ivan and Maria sleep
on a pull out sofa, their daughter on a single bed which can fold into
a chair and Petya on a mattress in the kitchen under the table.
They dream of a three room apartment which would have 450 square
feet, but with such apartments costing around $20,000, Ivan’s income of
less than $100 per month and ¼
of his income going for medical treatment for Lyuda, the dream seems unattainable.
The 12 year old son, Petya’s “room”,
a place where he can store his clothes and other belongings, is
the space under the sofa.
When I (Bill) was 12, I remember my father speaking of how “poor”
we were while the three members of our family lived in a home with two
stories, three bedrooms, three baths, living room, den, two car garage
and an acre of land. I believed
him because he constantly refused to put in air-conditioning.
What a different perspective makes.
Today we want to share with you some
good news about the Street children ministry here in Kiev.
We have had our first day in our new
center near the first of June. The repair work is virtually complete.
The grand opening will happen later this Summer. Thank you to God
and to all of you who have supported us in different ways.
Our street children ministry
has just celebrated one year of continuous work. Our daily program started
May 2002. It has been an amazing year with a lot of joy, happiness, sadness,
frustrations and thanks and glory to God and all of you who have supported
us this year.
We have about 20-25 children coming
every day. We have used a lot
of time to build trust, to show the children that we are here, that
we support them. We have done that by giving them food packages
every day, talking with them, teaching them how to stay away from drugs
and alcohol, giving them to
medical treatment, playing, taking them on trips, sewing up old clothes
and providing new.
A couple of days ago there was a TV program
about the situation for the children here in Ukraine. One of the boys who
told his story was one of our children. The program leader asked him if
he has any kind of support, adults who care for him. His answer was: Yes,
Svetlana (the daily director of our program)!
Thank you to all of you for
providing us the opportunity to be a neighbor for Alexander, Natasha, Sergey,
Karina and the rest of the children of the street we have an opportunity
to serve.
Now, when we have our center we will
have a teacher and a doctor connected to our theme. The children will be
able to wash their clothes, take a shower and store what little personal
belongings they have. We
will provide basic education and health care along with Christian teaching.
Svetlana our daily program leader
of our street children ministry wants to share some of the children’s stories
with you.
Here is Svetlana's greetings to you,
translated from Russian:
Many children of Kiev live on the streets.
Many of them don't have a house, some of them leave their homes because
of impossibility of living with parents. We have children in our program
"Street children of Kiev" who suffer from loneliness and the
terror of being unwanted, even though they have parents. For example, Alina
has mother and father and grandparents, however, her mother is divorced
from Alina's father who has
rejected Alina, claiming she is not his daughter. Her mother drank for
a long time, forced Alina to collect bottles, and brought a string of strange
men to the house, eventually causing Alina to start spending the night
away from home. Initially,
she stayed at the neighbors' apartments, but after they stopped letting
her in, she spent more time on the streets. When her grandfather learned
about it, he succeeded in taking away custody from Alina's mother and becoming
Alina's guardian. But he didn't allow Alina to live in his house citing
his age and inability to take care of Alina, although he is still a relatively
young grandfather in his late fifties. He sent Alina to a state-run orphanage,
however Alina protested against it and ran away. As a result, her grandfather
involved the police, so if they catch Alina, she'll be sent to a "special"
orphanage which is like a juvenile prison.
We also have Maxim, he's 16. He has a
mother and father. Maxim loves his Mom a lot and periodically calls home,
but he hates his Dad. Maxim didn't tell us anything for a long time, but
recently he said that his father spent a long time in prison. After being
released from prison, he started drinking and "teaching discipline"
to Maxim and his mother. His father has beaten Maxim's mother and he also
tried to beat Maxim, but Maxim always managed to evade his dad's beatings
by running away. One day, Maxim left for good, and he doesn't want to come
back.
We also have children without parents.
They are required under state law to be placed in an orphanage, but because
of abuse between the older and younger orphans, lack of staffing and poor
supervision, the children sometimes feel it
is easier for them to survive on the streets. Although street has
its own laws of survival too - older street children rule over the
younger children, making them
beg money for them or worse. The principle law: Might makes right.
We take joy in the fact they come to
us. They pray with us, play with us, and communicate with us. For them,
we are adults who are not turning away from them, not shouting at them,
and not angry about their looks. For them, we are adults who are patiently
telling what's bad and what's good. It's hard for them to understand the
fact that they were created by God not for a life like the one they lead.
But we hope that the seeds we plant into their hearts will grow into a
harvest. It's good that they think even a little bit about God, about Salvation.
They tell about their dreams where they see angels with excitement. One
boy, Oleg, who abstained from inhaling glue for a week, told us that one
night he saw an angel in his dream who asked him questions about his life
and asked where Oleg would like to go: "to heaven or to hell?"
Oleg woke up very scared and couldn't fall asleep thinking about
it. However, with time, the temptations of this world took over on him,
and he's inhaling glue again, though not as bad as before.
Sometimes, we get very tired from hopelessness, but coming to serve
the children and seeing their joyful faces help us to deliver the news
about the way to be saved in this evil world through Jesus Christ. And
only with Him they can change themselves and their lives. God bless!"
-- Svetlana Tolstonok, daily director of the Kiev Street Children
Program.
Bibles and Discipleship Resources: Advance Special number 014052-6.
This fund is used to buy Bibles, Sunday School Literature and other Christian
literature for use in our churches.
New Church Start-up and Ministries Advance Special number 014053-7.
This fund is to help in the planting of new churches and evangelism ministries
in Ukraine.
Street Children Ministry Advance Special 014054-8.
Thank you for your support. May God bless
you as He has blessed us through you!
Greetings from
Bill and Helen Lovelace