Bible Thoughts June 4, 2000
"Give no occasion of stumbling, either to Jews, or to Greeks, or to
the church of God: even as I also please all men in all things, not
seeking mine own profit, but the profit of the many, that they may be
saved"(I Corinthians 10:32-33).
Paul had just instructed the brethren at Corinth to be sure that what they did was "to the glory of God"(v. 31). How better to glorify God than to set an example of righteousness to those whom we contact? By that example one is demonstrating, effectively, the life of a Christian. Each person who observes that example may be influenced to become a disciple of Christ.
The strength of any example is determined by the behavior of the individual. When it is remembered that we are seeking the welfare of others in leading them to the truth, a realization of the need for living as a Christian in every situation of life becomes paramount in the thinking of a disciple. One never knows when he/she is being observed and the ultimate effect that will be left in the heart of an observer. In fact, in every phase of life, someone is watching us: how we talk, how we act, the attitudes we display, the reactions to situations, and so forth. Of course, the Lord is watching us all the time; men watch us some(most?) of the time.
The Bible teaches that we are to be examples of righteousness within our homes. To fathers, Paul would say, "Fathers, provoke not your children, that they be not discouraged"(Philippians 3:21). An improper act or behavior by a parent would certainly be noticed by a child. One's offspring seeing the lack of faith, trust, and obedience in a parent would cause one to be "discouraged". How many children have been hurt and/or distraught over the behavior of a parent? Parents, your children know what you are like; they know what you respect; they know what makes your happy; they realize the things that make you mad; they KNOW what kind of an example you set before them.
Within the home, children should be trained to be an example of righteousness. As Paul stated, "Children, obey you parents in all things, for this is well-pleasing in the Lord"(Colossians 3:20). Obedient and respectful children honor their parents and set a worthy example within the family. Such examples do not always come easy. It takes sound and consistent teaching and much effort to "train up a child in the way he should go." That which is learned in the home will be carried through life. It will effect the generations to come. Emphasizing to children the importance of living a life that pleases God is the greatest gift a parent can bestow on offspring. Every parent is to live that example so that children can see the dedication of the family to the ways of God.
Among "the many" who will be affected by a righteous example are those with whom saints work at a secular job. Do not be fooled: their eyes are watching you. If one says, "I am a Christian," but lives a life of carelessness in the work place, such an example will destroy the influence needed to guide one to the Lord. The apostle Paul did not forget or neglect his service to God because he was a tentmaker. Even under the conditions of slavery, the early saints were expected to serve their masters by living a life that pleased the Lord. Imagine: it was possible for a slave who was a Christian to lead his master to the truth. Ask yourself: how do I behave on the job? What kind of an attitude do I display? Do others see Christ living in me?
Young people can also live an example that will influence others. In high school and college, there are many temptations. Satan is trying to snare every person. When the young Christian is dedicated to the Lord, other young people will notice it. Oh yes, there will be derision from some; criticism from others; avoidance by many; yet, there will be some who will observe the proper example and be influenced by such devotion to the Lord. To a young man, Paul said, "Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an ensample to them that believe, in word, in manner of life, in love, in faith, in purity"(I Timothy 4:12). Young people have more influence and power over their peers than is sometimes recognized. If one does not do what is right, others will notice. If one does what is right, others will notice.
Paul, in the opening passage, pointed out that no "occasion of stumbling" included the "church of God." The apostle is including the brethren as those who would be influenced by one's behavior(example). Our conduct when around brethren should be of the highest quality. Each disciple is to live a righteous example to every other disciple. Corinth had problems in this area; hence, Paul taught them the need to behave in the Lord's kingdom. Other saints are aware of how we conduct ourselves in assemblies, meetings, dealing with problems, actions toward other brethren, and under all circumstances that involve the Lord's people. An excellent way to influence other disciples is to be an example in all circumstances when contact is made with brethren. Young Christians are observing each one of the older saints; what do they see?
One unrighteous act by a Christian can have a devastating effect upon those who are observing a disciple. Sure, Christians make mistakes. However, many do not understand that disciples are still human. A follower of the Lord should do all within his/her power to live in every situation of life in a manner that one would never question whether he/she is a disciple. Paul said it in this way, "Do all things without murmurings and questionings; that ye may become blameless and harmless, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom ye are seen as lights in the world, holding forth the word of life"(Philippians 2:14-16).
This writer has seen some excellent examples of concern, interest, and sacrifice for others within this local congregation . Paul did encourage such by saying, "Be ye imitators of me, even as I also am of Christ"(I Corinthians 11:1). To live after that example is to be the aim of every Christian.