Still no luck getting anywhere with this child support issue -- you would think with both myself and my daughter's father being in the military, that this process could somehow be expedited... but not so. Seems his company commander doesn't take anything the District Attorney's office sends him seriously. He claims never to have received any of it. The whole situation is made even more frustrating by the fact that Chris, Keris' father, is getting kicked out in a month and he has already promised to disappear. Further complicating matters is the fact that I want to get out because I cannot take these deployments and 12+ hour days and field exercises, et cetera anymore. So here comes the big nosedive into civilian obscurity and the world of "Do you want fries with that?" It's disgusting and terrifying. I got my mother a mother's day card that says, "Men are always whining that we're smothering them... personally, I think if you can hear him whine, you're not pressing down on the pillow hard enough." That pretty much sums up my feelings right now, no offense intended for you few virtuous, compassionate, considerate male souls out there, none of whom I have met.
He alternately denies paternity and threatens to sue for custody, which is evidence of stupidity, because not only does he not know how to change a diaper, he could never prove me an unfit mother and himself a suitable guardian, especially now that he's getting kicked out for having a drinking problem.
I can't believe I'm sharing my miserable taste in men with everyone out there (all 17 of you that have visited my page)... and I can't believe how someone could not at least be curious as to what his child looked like.
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