If Men could Menstruate....
What would happen if suddenly, magically, men could menstruate and women could not?
The answer is clear: menstruation would become an enviable,
boast-worthy, masculine event.
Men would brag about how long and how much.
Boys would mark the onset of menses, that longed-for proof of manhood, with religious
ritual and stag parties.
Congress would fund a National Institute of Dysmenorrhea to help stamp out monthly
discomforts.
Sanitary supplies would be federally funded and free. (Of course, some men would
still pay for the prestige of commercial brands such as John Wayne Tampons, Muhammad Ali's
Rope-a-dope Pads, Joe Namath Jock Shields - "For Those Light Bachelor Days," and
Robert "Baretta" Blake Maxi-Pads.)
Military men, right-wing politicians, and religious fundamentalists would cite
menstruation ("MENstruation") as proof that only men could serve in the army
("you have to give blood to take blood"), occupy political office ("can
women be aggressive without that steadfast cycle governed by the planet Mars?"), be
priests and ministers ("how could a woman give her blood for our sins"), or
rabbis ("without the monthly loss of impurities, women remain unclean").
Male radicals, left-wing politicians, and mystics, however, would insist that women are
equal, just different; and that any woman could enter their ranks if only she were willing
to self-inflict a major wound every month ("you MUST give blood for the
revolution"), recognize the preeminence of menstrual issues, or subordinate her
selfness to all men in their Cycle of Enlightenment.
Street guys would brag ("I'm a three-pad man") or answer praise from a buddy
("Man, you are lookin' good") by high-fiving and saying, "Yeah, man, I'm on
the rag!" TV shows would treat the subject at length. ("Happy Days":
Richie and Potsie try to convince Fonzie that he is still "The Fonz," though he
has missed two periods in a row.) So would newspapers. (SHARK SCARE THREATENS MENSTRUATING
MEN. JUDGE CITES MONTHLY STRESS IN PARDONING RAPIST.) And movies. (Newman and
Redford in "Blood Brothers!")
Men would try to convince women that intercourse was more pleasurable at "that
time of the month." Lesbians would be said to fear blood and therefore life
itself-though probably only because they needed a good menstruating man.
Of course, male intellectuals would offer the most moral and logical arguments.
How could a woman master any discipline that demanded a sense of time, space, mathematics,
or measurement, for instance, without that in-built gift for measuring the cycles of the
moon and planets-and thus for measuring anything at all? In the rarefied fields of
philosophy and religion, could women compensate for missing the rhythm of the
universe? Or for their lack of symbolic death and resurrection every month?
Liberal males in every field would be kind to women: the fact that "these
people" have no gift for measuring life or connecting the universe, the liberals
would explain, that should be punishment enough.
