What is the best way to handle this? Were we wrong to suspend in the meeting or does the membership have the authority to take this action if they so deem? - S.M., Nov. 14, 1999
A:
Every organization has the right to set standards of membership, and to decide whom to admit and whom to expel (subject, of course, to state and federal laws and to its own rules).
When a procedure is specified in the bylaws, it must be followed to the letter.
The bylaws may not be suspended (except when the bylaws themselves say they may be suspended).
(RONR p. 12.)
Just as going directly to second base by running over the pitcher's mound in a baseball game isn't allowed, you can't skip part of the grievance and complaint procedure, even if you'd eventually end up at the same place.
Your President was correct that the action of suspending the members was out of order, not because the accused members want a trial, but because it was in violation of your bylaws.
The suspension should be nullified.
If you wish to pursue the suspensions, you've got to "go back to home plate" and follow the bylaws.