Jonathon, David's Friend I Samuel 18:1 I. Introduction. A. Background. B. Examine text. C. A great example for all. D. Christians should cultivate proper friendships. E. Proverbs 18:24. II. Body. A. Jonathon was concerned for David's welfare: I Samuel 19:1-7. 1. A friend desires only good happen to you: I Samuel 20:42. 2. Friendship is most often tried during adversity. 3. Proper friendship will last to the end--through trials and victories: Proverbs 17:17. 4. By telling of Saul's threat--shows friend reveals the truth: Romans 12:9. 5. Proverbs 27:6. B. Jonathon and David had common goals: I Samuel 18:3. 1. Basis for covenant. 2. That for which one strives is indicated by his/her friends. 3. The friendship caused Jonathon to accept God's choice of David for king. 4. Abraham and God: James 2:23. C. Jonathon showed his friendship by giving gifts: I Samuel 18:4. 1. Custom of ancient times. 2. Not the value of gifts--but the expression of feeling. 3. The greatest gift of man: John 15:13. 4. The greatest gift to man: Christ's death. 5. Cornelius wanted to share with his friends the truth: Acts10:24. D. Jonathon and David had mutual desires and aims. 1. Like produces life: righteous people seek righteous friends(also make friends with those who will listen to truth and care about truth). 2. Common bonds--common aims. 3. Traits of righteousness bring people together. 4. Those to whom we are drawn indicate out character (tell a person's character thereby). 5. A good person is the best friend. 6. IF you would have a true friend, make a friend of one who is a friend of God. 7. Value the friendship of Christ above all others. 8. John 15:14. E. While Jonathon grew close to David, his father increased his hatred. 1. One admired--the other envied. 2. Contrast the two. 3. How jealousy and envy can control a person. 4. How proper friendship can be cultivated and grow. III. Conclusion: Are you a friend of Christ?-JY