Bible Thoughts November 9, 2003
Shame in Proverbs
"He that gathereth in summer is a wise son: but he that sleepeth in harvest is a son that causeth shame"(Proverbs 10:5).
There is a time to work and a time to rest.
While one has the energy and the stamina to work, it is time to
gather one's harvest. Opportunities to increase one's standard of
life should be claimed when they are available. When such arise
within one's life, especially among the young, it is proper to take
advantage of what has been offered. Many of the plans of youth lie
on the bed of do-nothing because they did not use their energy and
abilities to claim what was offered to them. My young friend, use
your energy and your effort to make a life as a Christian that will
not only be satisfying to you, but will prepare you for a home in
heaven. The harvest of righteousness awaits you in eternity.
"When pride cometh, then cometh
shame: but with the lowly is wisdom"(Proverbs 11:2). Pride gets a lot of people in
trouble. Pride is often connected to stubbornness. Too many are too
proud to acknowledge their wrongs and misdeeds. Too many are too
proud to say they have failed. Such pride will prevent many from
changing their attitude and ways so they may correct their lives.
Pride often stands in the way of saying, "I was wrong." Pride often
stands in the way of saying, "I am sorry for what I did." Pride can
prevent one from correcting the mistakes made in life. The wise
person will set aside his/her pride and correct anything in one's
life that hinders proper service to the Almighty. True wisdom
involves the humility to set aside one's pride and place one's life
under the guidance of the Almighty.
"Poverty and shame shall be to him
that refuseth instruction: but he that regardeth reproof shall be
honoured"(Proverbs 13:18).
We live in a country where one has the freedom to study and learn whatever is available to humanity. Yet, many refuse to take advantage of the opportunities that are available. Many of those who are in poverty simply did not use the opportunities that were offered to be taught in the proper offerings of this life. Especially is this true when it comes to religion. Poverty is not limited to material substance: one can be spiritually starving through refusing the instructions found in the New Testament. The Lord's church offers many opportunities to learn, and yet, a host of folks do not take advantage of what is offered.
There is another element in this passage:
reproof. All of us make mistakes and have need from time to time to
be corrected. When one is willing to point out those faults in
another's life, proper honor is to be given to the one who cares
about the soul of that person. Too many resent such efforts and fail
to accept the help that is offered by one who is concerned about the
soul of the individual. Never react negatively to those who want to
help you live a life of righteousness: they care for your soul!
"He that answereth a matter before
he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him"(Proverbs 18:13).
It always pays to listen to the whole story.
One basic fault of many of us(author included) are too hasty to
respond to what someone is saying. It happens in the home(husbands
tend to be notorious in this); it happens in the workplace; it
happens in times of leisure; it happens in the assembly of the
saints. It is not always easy to listen to another in a society that
is based on how fast one can move through life, doing everything and
anything that involves one's desires of the heart. Let each of us
take a little time to listen to others, especially to our mates, our
children, the brethren, and those who need our assistance. It would
be a shame to miss a golden opportunity because we did not listen!
Proper listening enhances proper living.
"The rod and reproof give wisdom:
but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to
shame"(Proverbs 29:15).
Proper discipline produces proper children.
When a child is left to his own ways, only misery will follow. It is
the responsibility of parents to see that their children are reared
in the "nurture and admonition of the
Lord."(It is not the task of the
neighborhood; it is not the government's task; it is not the task of
the schools--it is the task of the parents!) A child who is
neglected in this matter cannot adjust properly to life as an adult.
When younger, they will commit acts that are embarrassing to the
parent. When older, they will bring sadness and sorrow into the
hearts of those who cared the most for them. One does not have to be
a "child beater" to guide and discipline a child. All of us,
however, including the younger, need to be corrected from time to
time. It will make us a better person who is strong enough to face
the issues of life.
Shame in New
Testament
"I write not these things to shame you, but to admonish you as my beloved children"(I Corinthians 4:14).
Paul was interested, above all else, in the
souls of the brethren at Corinth. He was not trying simply to shame
them, but to inspire them to accept and follow the divine
instructions of the New Testament. The apostle uses the word
admonish to make his point. The word is defined as "to reprove
gently but earnestly." His interest in leading the brethren in the
pathway of righteousness provoked him to refer to them as "my beloved
children." No one should resent being admonished by a faithful
Christian. The concern focuses on the spiritual welfare of the
disciple.
"...for the things which are done
by them in secret it is a shame even to speak of"(Ephesians 5:12).
Under the guise of free speech, our society
has become the victim of ungodly speech. There seems to be no
respect for the decent speech of righteous people. The cursing, the
blaspheming, the ungodly words, and the evil speech has been brought
out of the closet into the home, the workplace, the entertainment
field, the school ground, the radio, the television, the newspapers,
ad infinitum. One who lacks the proper use of decent speech will
resort to such filth in order to believe they are expressing
themselves. Yes--they are expressing themselves, but someday the
Lord will express to them the consequences of taking the name of the
Lord "in vain."
"Let your speech be always with
grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer
every man"(Colossians
4:6).