8) A VERY POWERFUL METHOD

LESSON EIGHT.

Here is a powerful secret method.
Even if you are very shy, you will be likely to get one of the women you want, and you will use your shyness for reaching your goal!
Unusual, isn't it?!

In 1996 I used to spend a long time on chats on the Internet.
At that time only a few italian people used to surf the Internet and most of them were male (90%). So in the chats there were about 9 men for each woman! (By the way, some stupid men said they were women, but it was easy to discover they were fake women, due to what they wrote while chatting, because men are very different from women, see Lesson One).

On a chat I found a girl (that was really a girl) whose name was Ave.
While other men used to search for virtual sex (they liked to masturbate while chatting), I did not care at all about virtual sex and I preferred to understand something more about female sexual behavior. So I asked her a lot of questions about sexual preferences of her and of other girls she knew. For example I was curious about female masturbation (I discovered that girls actually masturbate themselves less than boys do, but not so much less as we usually believe).

I was also curious about performing oral sex on women.
I have never been able to perform oral sex on women! I don't consider this a shame, and I asked her how I could perform oral sex on my girl. Well, I did not realize that I was turning her on so bad (see Lesson Three). In a few days she become crazy about me, and she proposed to meet me to try to make oral sex on her!!! I did not meet her because she was far away (around 220 Km or 140 miles) but I was surprised about her proposal!
I knew that dozens men were trying to chat with her in vain, while I was able to get a sex date (just because I did not care about it!).

I was able to change a virtual fault or shame of mine (I was not able to perform oral sex on a woman) into a powerful tool to attract women!

Suggestion. If you want to place sex ads, don't write "I am looking for a girl to do sex". Write "I am looking for a girl that wants to teach me how to perform oral sex on my girl: of course I don't need to meet you, I need only to communicate by e-mail or newsgroup or regular mail or chat or phone or whatever". This will make them feel safe, and you will make them curious also, thus creating emotion in them - and you remember that this is the key! So you will be likely to receive some answers (a few ones, but remember that you will receive NO answers if you place the usual I-want-to-do-sex ad!).

Another advantage is this: you don't even need to place this ad among sex ads! (Women do not use to read sex ads). This ad could be accepted in "normal" discussions lists or ads or newsgroups or chats! Remember, this method is powerful both because she will feel safe and because you will create an emotion in her.

Of course, if you understand this concept, you can change "I am not able to perform oral sex" with whatever else. You can even change this with "I am shy and I would like a girl to tell me what I should do to meet pretty girls". Of course, be careful: usually women do not like shy boys or men (they like self-confident men, see Lesson Two). However this method is so effective that it may work even if you declare you are shy, provided that you keep your self-confidence (due to other fields of your life).

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