7) INVEST IN "DIFFERENTIAL SIN"!

LESSON SEVEN.

Now is the time for performing your action!
You are monitoring several girls and women that you would like to be your lovers. You rely on statistics, so you know that at least one will become your lover (possibly more than one).

We suppose that you want superficial and unstable relationships just for your fun... In this case, you should choose the right girls or women.

Two extreme examples about the women you should NOT choose.
1) Consider a married woman that is happy about her husband. First of all, you will have to make a strong effort to get her attention. Further on, it is not worth to destroy a happy marriage just for your fun. If you are religious, you understand that this is even a heavy sin. If she has children this is even worse.
2) Consider a ingenuous virgin girl. Again, you will have to make a strong effort to get her attention. Unless you are really in love with this girl, it is not worth to choose her as a lover just for your fun. Also consider that she might attach to you and probably it will be difficult for you to get free from her.

So, in this two cases it is not worth to perform a "sin".
However, you can perform a "differential sin": this is the best choice. What does it mean?! Please read carefully. This is a strange concept, and someone does not understand this: if "differential sin" is not clear to you, don't care too much, and focus on the other lessons.

I created this term, "differential sin", drawing my inspiration from mathematics. Suppose that the advantages of performing such sin are greater than the disadvantages. In other words, the (gain - loss) difference is greater than zero. In such case, it is worth to perform the sin!

Didn't you understand?
Here is an extreme example. This is a little bit unpleasant but it is easy to understand.

Suppose you know a young widow. Of course she used to have a sex routine before her husband died. So now she is suffering a sexual abstinence. If you want have sex with her just for fun, this is a "sin" from a religious or moral point of view. This may even be offensive to the memory of her husband.
However, from a "physiological" point of view, it would be good for her to do a little sex, while waiting to meet another reliable and serious person to begin a good relationship with (of course that serious person is not you! You are only a temporary medicine).

This benefit would be so great that it overcomes any moral remark. So it would be useful both for her and you to have a short unstable relationship. In mathematical terms, the difference (advantages - disadvantages) is greater than zero (while it would be lesser than zero in the first two examples).
Note: also in this case you should not propose direct sex (remember Lesson One): you should use the suggestions exposed in Lesson Three and in other Lessons.

If you understand this concept, you can apply it to other real cases in life. For example: one girl has just discovered that her boyfriend was unfaithful with her. She is angry and she desires a fast revenge. It is saturday night and you happen to meet her. Why should you let her have her revenge with someone else?! This is clearly a sin. However, it is a "differential sin", so profit by this rare opportunity!

You will find several real cases around you, and they will not be so rare... Here is another example.

I have had a kind of "stable unstable lover" for several years, whose name is Manuela. What does "stable unstable lover" mean? You have to know that Manuela pretends a lot of qualities in a man. He must be beautiful, intelligent, cultured, etc. Unfortunately there are not many such men in the world, so she has very rare relationships and these last a short time (until she finds a defect in him). You also have to know that I don't want to have a stable relationship with a girl and I prefer to be single. Obviously I said this to Manuela. However, both of us need to make love sometimes (say once in a month, of course just before her menstruation), so she became my "stable unstable lover".

Of course I didn't make a direct proposal to her, otherwise she would get angry and feel offended. I showed my desire indirectly (reread Lesson Three). I told that I would like to have a temporary lover, but she had to be beautiful, intelligent, etc. Of course I spoke as she was not a possible "candidate" or "applicant" for this. This increased her curiosity and jealousy and... please reread Lesson Three! That's how she became my main lover.

This was another example of "differential sins". I am sure that you will be able to find other examples in your real life!

Remember: if you clearly explain your intention to a girl, and in the following days she continues to talk with you as if nothing bad happened, this means that she is likely to be "available".

When you have done all what you had to do, and you receive a positive feedback (or even a not-negative feedback), perform your action! Wait for the right moment, when you feel strong and self-confident, and kiss her. You have to show to be self-confident about what you are doing. If you get a negative feedback, don't apologize, don't look for excuses. You have the right to make your attempts. If you don't apologize, don't think you may seem rough: she will respect you for your self-confidence. And remember, you still may have a chance (you can try again after a few days if you see a more positive feedback).

A final suggestion. Usually I like to have my back massaged. I use to tell this to the girls I know well. This may be a powerful pretext to get into intimacy. I had a sex relationship with my friend Paola just after we started to massage the back to each other...

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