5) IF YOU WANT A SPECIFIC WOMAN...

LESSON FIVE.

Here are some suggestions to get a single specific woman. Some of them may be used for Lesson Six also (about trying to get more women!)

First of all, you have to focus on Carnegie's suggestions, without forgetting Jeffries' suggestions.

As pointed out in Lesson One, women don't care about direct and immediate sex. They care about love, or feeling, or emotion. If you are able to create emotion in a woman, you can get all the sex you want from her...

The best action is to stay together with her one day, or a few minutes for many days, so that a feeling is created. For example an excursion or trip is very good for this. The emotion of the trip (or holiday, or party, or whatever) will be useful to you because she will begin to grow a small feeling for you (as well as for anybody in the trip or holiday or whatever). This is a strong basis to start. Of course you have to be patient and to wait several days. Remember that fast sex is very rare, even though porno movies want us to believe that it is something normal and usual (remember also that women prefer love movies rather than porno movies, unless you were able to create a strong emotion in them that has turned them on).

Your strong point is to use the emotion created in your girl by a special situation (trip, party, holiday) for your own purpose. If you don't know the girl (you were not introduced to her) try to meet her often during good situations. Example: I live close to the seaside and during the winter I like to go there, even though there are only a few people. I noticed that a nice girl used to go there also, at certain times in the day. So I tried to go there at the same time when she was there. Of course she began to notice me. Since the situation was a good and pleasant one, unconsciously she identified the good situation with seeing me... I waited several days (doing nothing with her) so that she could not think I was going there just for her. After several times I tried to talk to her (with a pretext). This was a good introduction. Of course, after you had a good beginning, you have to continue right to get the right ending (in this case, you can imagine eventually what happened with that girl). However, now we are only considering the first steps at this time.

Several years ago I used to go to a disco. There was a girl, whose name was Alessandra, that I liked very much but I did not know how to get her attention. I knew that Alessandra used to stay in a specific place inside the disco and I used to glance if she was there.
Once another girl was in that place where Alessandra used to stay. For a few seconds, I thought it was Alessandra. However, I noticed that she was different, so I stared at her for a while wondering about what was happened to her! Then I understood that she was not Alessandra, but this girl was struck by my strange behavior and probably she thought I was charmed by her! So, she began to look at me. The next times I went to this disco, she continued to look at me. Since I did not care about her, she was wondering why the first time I stared at her, and later I did not consider her anymore! This created strange feelings and a sort of jealousy in her. Later I knew that she fell in love with me! I did not want to make her fall in love with me (it was a misunderstanding), however, I learned that such behavior can create a strong emotion in a girl!

So, from these stories, you see that we are collecting more and more tools to get the attention of a girl and to create an emotion in her. It's up to you to use these powerful tools and to adapt them to your circumstances.

Of course, classic approaches are very effective also, if you focus on a specific girl or woman. Even though it may seem a silly old cliche, women love flowers, or jewels, or even small gifts, or chocolates, or greeting cards, and so on... Remember, it is not important the real value of the gift, it is most important the emotion it can create in her. Also remember that women love all those silly small objects or gadgets that are insignificant for men (ask your sister or your mother or any girl or woman for concrete examples).

Finally, the striking point is to make a song or poetry for her. You may feel stupid in doing this, but remember it may be a great investment...
You can also learn to play an instrument or (even better) to sing: don't forget that women really love musicians and singers! Again, this may be a banal suggestion, but it is very, very effective!

Above all, be patient. If you are able to wait some time and to be firm and constant in your courtship, probably you will see miracles. Of course this is not 100% sure, but in my experience and in what I saw in experience of my friends, this is 80% sure, even if this was a 10% at the beginning.

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