 3) BANAL SECRET #3: SHOW A WEAK INTEREST AND SHOW YOUR DESIRES INDIRECTLY! LESSON THREE. Suppose you want a woman. You should show you appreciate her and you are interested in her, but not very much. This means that she must understand that you are interested in her, but you may be interested in other women also and you don't really care about her. This will make her jealous. If you were not introduced to her, you can show your interest by looking at her. If you already know her, you can show this by speaking to her in a friendly and interested way. Carnegie's tips (in Lesson Four) will be useful for you to do this.
I found that the best strategy is to show a limited
interest and to deal with her as with a friend.
This behavior is favourable for two reasons: To increase this state in her, you should show you are interested in other women also. You should be polite and kind with her, but indirectly you should show that you like women and sex.
An extreme example. Once I was talking with two girls: they were
friends of mine and they knew I am a serious and polite guy
(Meleton would say "a nice guy"). We were walking in a crowded
street. Suddenly we saw a very beautiful and sexy girl wearing
a very coloured dress and strange sun-glasses.
Everybody stared at her both because she was very sexy and because
of her weird sun-glasses. I could not hold back myself and I said
in a low voice: "I would fuck you even with your glasses on!"
(that is: in spite of your strange glasses). In the following days I noticed that something had changed in those two girls. Shortly, in a few weeks I was able to have sex with one of them... Of course this was an "extreme" example. You don't need to be that hard (as I was), you need only to show that you would like to have sex with the women you like... You understand that this is very different from placing sex ads on adultfriendfinder.com (the two girls did know that I am a reliable person). I like to report some tips from the funny and interesting book "Nice guys don't get laid" (by Marcus Pierce Meleton, Jr.). Of course you should remember that Meleton likes to joke, but the following rules really seem to work! DISCLAIMER: this is MY OWN elaboration about the content of such book. So there is no copyright infringement (even if you believe there is a copyright infringement, you must consider that this is compensated by the free publicity I am providing to such book). "Have a woman with a sexy voice make your phone recorder message. Every woman calling you will have to listen to another woman answering your phone. This drives them crazy with desire". "Your address book should be loaded with women's names, so add fake ones. Women are curious about address books. If there aren't many other names then she'll want to remove hers. Adding stars next to names is effective. To be devious don't put stars next to the woman you like. She will realize she still hasn't earned a rating". "Buy sets of ear-rings and spread them around (under the seats of your car, the couch, the bed, in the bathroom, etc.). Your excuse to a woman who finds them is that your sister used your apartment for a while. She won't believe you, thus not only have you received the positive attribute of being loose but also a liar". By the way, Meleton believes that you have to be nasty to get women... However, we are only interested in seeing how to make them jealous. A final suggestion if you want to have short and unstable stories with women: tell them you are married (even though you are not). This will make them jealous and respectful of you (as a ladykiller). Of course they will be aware that you are likely to have only short and unstable stories with other women, that may seem a bad point for you. However, this is compensated by the good points that you get because she becomes jealous and respectful of you. So, probably she will want to have a flirt with you, and she will know that this will be a short and unstable story, that is the perfect situation you are looking for...
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