When do we know?

Tell me when do we stop second guessing oursleves?
When do we know for certain that we have what we are searching for?
Is it always only when we have discarded the love and joy we had?
Is it truely only and always
" We don't know what we have until it's gone?"

Is there ever just once that not only is hindsigh 20/20
but also foresight is just as clear?
What do we do when the awe of loving each other goes out the window?
Do we then sit together twittling out thumbs content without drive?
I have never know a relationship to not dwindle into commonplacity,
stability and comfortablitiy.

So does this say something about me, the world,
the world today or just the species in general?
We humans live such short lives!
How do we know when it is truely right
and when we need to move on?
or all just a ploy by manafactures
to make us believe there is more
to life than procreation?
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