"Don't worry, Mom, I gave Daddy my blanket to keep him safe."
When I was fresh out of the seminary, my wife, Kathy, and I
moved with
our two-year-old son, Nate, to a small native village in Alaska.
The
small three and four passenger planes we took on our connecting
flights so
terrified our little boy that he took his favorite blanket and
covered his head until
we set down on the small dirt landing strips.
Later, during the long adjustment months that followed, when
we were learning how to
live in a new place amongnew people of a different culture, my
son carried his security blanket
everywhere, and it soon became soft and well-worn. He couldn't
fall asleep until he had
his blanket and could snuggle into its warmth.
The second year that we were in the village, I had a chance to
guest
speak at a mission conference in Seattle. While I was packing for
the
trip, my son followed me around the room, asking where I was
going, and how long
would I be gone, and why did I have to speak to those people, and
was anyone going
with me? Fine-tuning my speech in my mind, I was a little
distracted and
concerned about catching the small plane out of the village on
time. My
son seemed most worried about my having to fly out in bad weather
on one of those small
planes he feared so much. I reassured him that I would be fine,
and I asked
him to take care of his mom until I came back. With a hug at the
door, I was off to
the village landing strip and on to my speaking engagement.
When I got to the hotel in Seattle, I didn't have time to unpack
until
later that evening, and I was horrified when I opened my luggage
and
found my son's security blanket inside. I pictured my wife trying
desperately to
find the lost blanket as she prepared our son for bed. I
immediately rushed
to the phone to call Kathy and tell her that the blanket was in
my luggage, so
she could reassure our frantic son.
Kathy picked up the phone and barely had time to answer when I
began to
explain that the blanket was in my luggage and I had no idea how
it had
accidentally been packed. I was in the midst of my apology when
Kathy
calmed me down with the news that she already knew where the
blanket was.
She told me that she had picked Nate up and held him by the
window to
let him watch me drive away from the house. She had suggested
that they
pray for "Daddy to have a safe trip." Knowing that our
son would be most afraid
of the small plane ride to the major airport, she prayed,
"Dear Lord, please
help Daddy feel safe on the little plane." When the prayer
was over, our son
Nate spoke up and comforted his mom. "Don't worry, Mom, I
gave Daddy my blanket to
keep him safe."
- Rev. Dr. Bruce Humphrey