mix all of the above (whatever).
Since you're neurotic enough to wonder about such things, you should know that I am , I check in and I own a cat.
If there's any question I'd like to see answered in the new-and-improved (and unforgivably late) F.A.Q. for your diary, it would have to be:
I suspect you've been wrestling with the issue of whether to keep pictures of you on your web pages. Of course you're taking aesthetics, your huge ego, standards of modesty on the web and personal safety into account. I've done the same.
I think it is !
After wandering the rest of your wholly self-indulgent corner of the web, I like your page the best.
On the other hand, I think your page could use some work.
And before I go, I have to tell you...