Drop the sheild! No gal ever really tries to change her guy...in reality she's trying to blend with you, become one...be a team member, a best friend, as well as a girlfriend and wife.Women are thinkers...and want to know and express what they think and feel...they've been doing it for 2000 years and lord knows how long before that. Us guys have had it beatin into us. You're a man act like one!! What kind of crap is that???and who made the rules???You're not allowed to be weak. Be tough, be strong, be a man!!(humbug) Yet deep inside there's a small boy crying way down deep inside...wishing to hear that his father loves him, or he is his father's best friend...tell me I'm wrong? If you dig deep inside and get through all the garbage, you will find a very small boy in this big man...get to this small lad and you find the real man.
I used to be like that...and ya know...I was the biggest %&%*%& around. If I had met myself on the street I woulda said "what a piece of work that is!" Anyways, I grew up. I didn't become soft or wimpy or all the other phobias that a man has about that...I still got em, I just know how to use them properly now..It's called Wisdom! In other words...put yourself above the crappola and deal with issues openly, talk and think things through...sure it's a bit of work at first...but the results are well worth it!
In all reality, a woman wants to be loved, talked to, let inside, told she matters, she's appreciated, or else she'll think she doesn't matter and is not worth your attention...and that would be unkind to anyone. Just imagine you're in love with someone but they don't give you the time of day...pretty soon you'd feel pretty insecure about yourself and start trying to make another person appreciate you...in other words, put the shoe on the other foot! Be a man! and take responsibility for being sure everyone is loved and cared for...and if it means sharing yourself with your wife and kids, friends and relatives..so be it! Your a man! Be a man! Be a rock! Be a place of comfort, solice, wisdom and caring...be strong. Give 85% of yourself and expect 15% back. Everybody matters...people will flock to the rock of caring and sharing, finding refuge in the arms of strength. And that's what a woman looks for...power, strength, love, sharing , caring , safety in knowing her man loves her through his actions.
Get the hell off the couch, stop grumbling and being lazy and go help her with the dishes!! She likes it when you dote on her. The rewards are totally exhausting!! If ya get my drift!
You wanted a secret!!Well there's a few for ya! I'm gonna go knock down a damaged tree in my backyard usin my 800 horse-powered chain saw RRRrrrrrrr...then go and get the misses some flowers!
Later gang!
[Paul from B.C.]
It is my desire to change these quotes periodically, but as with
all things....Desires and Actualities don't always meet at the
same place.
[the Shadow Warrior, 1997]
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